"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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taken from that other thread...

im a sociable person but im not smashing any females and i dont know why. i just dont know how to take it to that level. i get to friendly with females i meet or dont even say anything beyond a 'hi' or 'wassup' to other females. im on a college campus with females at every turn but i feel like what's the point of approaching every females i see? i have a car and my own apartment and i work on campus so there really isnt an excuse. it's not like i'm studying 24/7. i know my guy friends who are smashing chicks but i dont hang out with them everyday.

and then i think i have one-itis for this girl even though i dont want to admit it but i cant even get her to come to my place cuz she's "busy" and she's just a friend of mine. i'm slowly trying to cut her off even though she wants me to do things for her like take her to the movies and take her to the grocery store. she asked me last time to take her to a movie then got into some roommate issues at the last minute. i feel like time is running out in general since im graduating college in december.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would suggest getting better at noticing when girls like you and give indications of interest. Women are very subtle and it is easy to not notice even when they think they are being obvious. Most girls will not do more than smile, or maybe laugh at your jokes and touch your arm. They have the opposite problem as men in regard to being obvious. We are usually too obvious and they are not obvious enough.
 
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Well, oneitis is a sure killer when it comes to game. Even guys who get plenty of pootang can hit a slump when oneitis sets in.

if you've got friends who are currently banging girls on the reg, i don't see why you don't start hanging out with them. see what they're doing that you're not, simple enough.

the people who hang around day in and day out are usually the people that mold your personality over time. Not saying MOLD yourself around other people; but take what is useful and use it.

If you're hanging out with a bunch of guys who don't get any women, why do you expect that you will?
 
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