"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just dumped my 4 month LTR

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paymon

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Last night I was busy when my girl asked to hang out. I went out with my boys to a movie. She txt'd me all angry about how I blew her off. I console her anger and then dumped her today. Its like she to control me and wants me to always be there at all times. She said its like I don't even care.

She was crying and said she didn't want to break up with me. She asked me to come over and talk but I just said sorry and ended it. Funny thing is that I don't even feel bad!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Sounds like she is a control freak. If you feel good about what you did then it was probably the best thing for you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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christz

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emotions tell a story, if you don't have none well then obviously there's no story to tell.

granted this is like the mose monotone post i've seen here yet, its cool how you broke it off no strings attached
 
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HeartlessBtch

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Congratulations...you have taken the first step to becoming an a$$hole...but hold on...what is that I read??? 4 months? an LTR? Get real...
 
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*hands you a beer*
Well done young man. You did the right thing.

Women may come and go, but your mates will be around forever.
 
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