"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just dropped a plate

skinnyguy

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It seems like the theme around here lately has been getting rid of women. I thought I'd play along.

This stupid cvnt I have been talking to flaked on me a week ago. Today, she was supposed to come over and go hot tubbing with me (she was quite keen two days ago), but she texted me 3 hours ago saying "I'm not sure about tonight…will let you know later). I replied with "Don't worry about it, I'm going to a party with friends tonight".

Bottom line:

If a chick isn't EAGER to go out with you, she's low interest and you should drop her immediately.

I've wasted the last 5 years "persuading" chicks to go out with me when I realized that i shouldn't have been persuading at all. If you have to persuade, you have already lost the power and you are guaranteed to not get laid.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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foreverAFC

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the great Pauly Shore once said " Either they are into it or they arent"
 

skinnyguy

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OMG the plate just texted me asking me if we can hang out! hahah….this dropping plates thing works like magic. too bad she burned the bridge with me.
 

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Very good response. I've learned not to waste my time with women that aren't eager or interested.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You called her out and now she is chasing you.

However, not sure if it is worth giving her another chance due to the fact she may be 1 of the 2 below:

1). Playing games / hard to get and found guilty

2). Trash woman who doesn't know what she wants until it is gone. People want what they can't have.

Anyhow if you go back to her, appears to be lose - lose situation unless she stops #1.

#2 you are mind phucked

Exodus
 

pdx1138

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that's the classic "push/pull" scenario at play there Skinnyguy.
 

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A women whos interested will move mountains for you.
 
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