"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just dont give a sh#t

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When it comes to chicks and their emotions and all the drama I just dont give a ****. Now after reading text after text about some cat in hear crying over getting played, and the reason he thought this is because she was like this or like that, I'm glad I do have that attitude.

I do me. Giving all your mental thought into their emotional state don't change a damn thing. Dudes in here be giving their souls to broads but still get walked over, and then turned to sniveling, crying, chicken hearted chumps.

I know I cant control people so why waste all day worrying about what they will and wont do.

I DO ME ALWAYS! A hor is going to be a hor, and a good woman will do the things good womem do. A tease is going to tease, and a cheat is going to cheat.

I dont have energy to be wasting on anybody's else drama. F-It!!!!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I second your statements Royalelite! And yes as you said 80% of these posts on here are estrogen driven.

What happened to this site from 2001 to today?
 

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Originally posted by MrHarris
I second your statements Royalelite! And yes as you said 80% of these posts on here are estrogen driven.

What happened to this site from 2001 to today?
There are too many cats getting caught up by the lure of Dr phill and oparah's bs teachings. When I look between my legs that is a clear indicator of what side nature wanted me rooting for you dig.

pimps up hoes down
 

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"And yes as you said 80% of these posts on here are estrogen driven. "




Well guys I wouldn't go as far to say that everybody here are some estrogen-crazed freaks...A lot of guys are just confused about how to handle women. Obviously there aren't too many guys who had a father or a big brother to show them how handle women..Its hard to convince someone that he's a winner when all his life known nothing but failure with women...All I'm saying is to give them a little slack..
 

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Obviously there aren't too many guys who had a father or a big brother to show them how handle women..Its hard to convince someone that he's a winner when all his life known nothing but failure with women...All I'm saying is to give them a little slack..
Agreed. I give my props to the guys who actually go out and try the advice that they learn from this site. They're doing the work and learning from the results. I have a problem with the guys that don't do any work and continue to whine about their problems.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree..I am dating this women..who took a test for her work..and failed..I thought she was gonna be a weak b*tch for week or 2..but she wasnt..thats was awesome..I wasnt listening to her whine for a week about it.

she even said she should have studied more and worked harder, gotta love that attitude!
 

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you right..I didnt have a dad..I was raised by my grandma and **** head gramps...but thats ok..I know the truth of the man now! :)
 

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so i'm confused, this relates back to the post you made about only wanting pu$$y from chicks and nothing more and nothing less.

i'm not estrogen driven, and i don't mind puttin myself in front of a smokein gun and ya know what i've been walked on ONCE in my 22 years of liveing.

ONCE not twice not by many girls, ONCE

see the thing is i balance my nature, with a little bit of the kinder side of being a gentelman

when i get into a relationship with a chick, the chances are i'll be with her LTR because of that balance, i can be the most halarious joker around C+F and all that good shyt. But i can also be the nicest dude to a girl ever.

its all about balance, rather than you who only wants one thing but like I said before, more power to you and other men who feel the same.
 

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can you plz stop complaining about how fvcked up the board is. i dont like many posts, too, but what is the sense in complaining, let that be the womens job. negativity will not make it better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
When it comes to chicks and their emotions and all the drama I just dont give a ****. Now after reading text after text about some cat in hear crying over getting played, and the reason he thought this is because she was like this or like that, I'm glad I do have that attitude.

I do me. Giving all your mental thought into their emotional state don't change a damn thing. Dudes in here be giving their souls to broads but still get walked over, and then turned to sniveling, crying, chicken hearted chumps.

I know I cant control people so why waste all day worrying about what they will and wont do.

I DO ME ALWAYS! A hor is going to be a hor, and a good woman will do the things good womem do. A tease is going to tease, and a cheat is going to cheat.

I dont have energy to be wasting on anybody's else drama. F-It!!!!
u are right. These guys only have themselves to blame. Even if 99.9% of women are completely useless to you, you can stil only blame yourself if you get caught up with one.
 

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Originally posted by Double
can you plz stop complaining about how fvcked up the board is. i dont like many posts, too, but what is the sense in complaining, let that be the womens job. negativity will not make it better.
Power only respects Power

Men are power and will only respect the truth. The time for babying cats has pass, noboby here is anybody's mother here, we are here to tell it like it is, not tell you it will all be alright.

Life is hard, dont like it so what! You either deal with the harsh reality or you lose. There are truly only two types-winners and losers. Noboby respect a loser, and being sentimental over the fact you are a loser wont change that fact.

Whining is for the lesser of the sex-females so when cats come whining it will be dealt with.

You cant really be a Man while still wearing a skirt!!!!
 

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word. i have seen men raised by thier mothers only and they still arnt wimps or wusses. it all down to you. my elder cousin who is raised by his mother and has the most success with girls than anyone i have ever known, his mama always told him man the fuk -up other wise girls will walk all over you.
its all down to how real the women were to thier sons some women are tuff like that.
 

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wow this post is soo sooo educational, something i've never read before in my years on sosuave... clap clap clap
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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...I find myself caring less and less too.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
...I find myself caring less and less too.
When I look back in my past I realized when their was some slipping in my pimping, it was when I started to care what people thought about me.

I have always been the best, and smartest in school and my confidence was through the roof, and the thing is it worked for me. I have a theory that goes we as humans always tend to change what works and continue with things that dont work.

Realize you are grown, and no one has the right to tell you how to live you life besides God. It sounds some simple but for some it isnt ez to be and just not care what others think.

Always do what works, always do what works! People can say what they want about super confident people (those who do them and dont care what others think), but the reality is super confident people win. The so called "arrogent" guy still gets all the fine women.
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite

Realize you are grown, and no one has the right to tell you how to live you life besides God. It sounds some simple but for some it isnt ez to be and just not care what others think.

Always do what works, always do what works! People can say what they want about super confident people (those who do them and dont care what others think), but the reality is super confident people win. The so called "arrogent" guy still gets all the fine women.
Truth....
 
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