"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just date a lot of women

Inc. ©

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Ever since I have started dating a lot of different women, I could really care less how I act. I just be natural and be myself cause when you date a lot of women you will find that most women are nothing special and you are smarter and better looking than them. Women can't survive in this world without men. Men can do just fine on their own. So that is my tip, just go on a lot of dates and you will no longer give a damn.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sapphire

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
Ever since I have started dating a lot of different women, I could really care less how I act. I just be natural and be myself cause when you date a lot of women you will find that most women are nothing special and you are smarter and better looking than them. Women can't survive in this world without men. Men can do just fine on their own. So that is my tip, just go on a lot of dates and you will no longer give a damn.
I agree. I like your style. ;)
 

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Thats so f**king true. I sometimes tell a girl "I am a bit over dates at the moment, but yeah sure, we could do something sometime" sure the text back was "Well you can shove your date up your ass then", but sure enough two weeks later we are at the same party and she stays at mine :)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Perfect cure for "one-itis." :up:
 
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