"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Just Curious, How many of you have sisters?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It's probably a good thing I didn't have a sister because I may have ended up violating her...:nono:
BTW to avoid this poll being too similar to Hughman's you should have had the choices be Yes or No.
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
Voice said:
Incest is best.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Joking aside. If I had a sister it may have been very helpful for me. It could have helped me to learn how girls are, the way they work and think. Cause right now I basically don't have a clue about girls. There's also the possibility that I could have hooked up with her friends, or a friend of her friends.
There is an interesting question. Do guys who have sisters, do better with girls?
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Maxtro said:
I think that just answers your question right there Maxtrowolf116 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
Put your sister to the test.Luthor Rex said:Incest is best.
Don't blame me, I'm only quoting a song lyric
I only have a 15yo sister so I obviously haven't learned anything from living with her, other than that I fully understand the saying "treat women like your little sister" and have done this with success.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
One example doesn't prove anything. Honestly I think it's a fault of the poll.OTB said:I think that just answers your question right there Maxtro
I would have done a poll with the options being.
No sisters, good with women
No sisters, bad with women
Have sisters, good with women
Have sisters, bad with women
That poll would help answer the question if having sisters would help with women.
LOL have you not learned anything or haven't you? Because I hope you know you contradicted yourself.jahidi said:
Luthor Rex
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I never directly learned anything from her about women because she is several years younger. I was figuring things out on my own before she had reached puberty.Maxtro said:
The only thing I learned was that I could have success by treating chicks I want to bang in somewhat of the same way that I would treat my sister, like I said.
So yes I did learn something but not nearly as much as I probably could have learned if I had an older sister, and I wouldn't think that what I learned was what the OP was thinking of people learning when he made the thread.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
The only thing I learned was that a house full of women is hell if you're the only male there. Sure my dad was around, but he worked during the day leaving me to hear my sister and mom not being able to agree on anything other than that the house had some kind of undetectible smell. If any of you ever get married, never let your wife or little girl think they run anything because you will have absolutely no peace.Maxtro said: