so i've never really had a problem getting girls. even like way back in early high school, i just never really had problems getting girls. come junior year, when the love of my life dropped me, and i started to learn about all this pua stuff, it only got better.
im now a frosh in colllege, and my girl life is still pretty solid.
however, today i came to the realization that i get girls pretty much only because i am relatively good looking.
Usually, picking up chicks at work is a breeze (i work at the mall's abercrombie and fitch), just because i have social proof for working there and im friends with all my attractive co-worker females which makes me look cooler; basically, all i really have to do is comment about seomthing and i can start talking to the girl. ill leave, talk to a co-worker and come back later, and usually thats enough to warrant me sufficient interest and then a name/number.
however, today at work, i saw this really hot girl who i totally wannted to get with. this girl though, didn't give me the time of day at all. aside from a "sorry" when i said "excuse me" as i was walking by.
when she left, i started thinking about why i cojuldnt get her number, and why i didint just do a more straight forward approach and eventually i realized that i pretty much just get girls because of my looks. and the pua knowledge that i do have, i generally just use to keep girls interested in me and to keep me from getting whipped. i know nothingabout picking up chicks who dont alreayd have a physical attraction.
how can i learn more about that part of my game?
comments are cool too.
im now a frosh in colllege, and my girl life is still pretty solid.
however, today i came to the realization that i get girls pretty much only because i am relatively good looking.
Usually, picking up chicks at work is a breeze (i work at the mall's abercrombie and fitch), just because i have social proof for working there and im friends with all my attractive co-worker females which makes me look cooler; basically, all i really have to do is comment about seomthing and i can start talking to the girl. ill leave, talk to a co-worker and come back later, and usually thats enough to warrant me sufficient interest and then a name/number.
however, today at work, i saw this really hot girl who i totally wannted to get with. this girl though, didn't give me the time of day at all. aside from a "sorry" when i said "excuse me" as i was walking by.
when she left, i started thinking about why i cojuldnt get her number, and why i didint just do a more straight forward approach and eventually i realized that i pretty much just get girls because of my looks. and the pua knowledge that i do have, i generally just use to keep girls interested in me and to keep me from getting whipped. i know nothingabout picking up chicks who dont alreayd have a physical attraction.
how can i learn more about that part of my game?
comments are cool too.