"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just came to revelation about myself, could use some help..

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so i've never really had a problem getting girls. even like way back in early high school, i just never really had problems getting girls. come junior year, when the love of my life dropped me, and i started to learn about all this pua stuff, it only got better.

im now a frosh in colllege, and my girl life is still pretty solid.

however, today i came to the realization that i get girls pretty much only because i am relatively good looking.

Usually, picking up chicks at work is a breeze (i work at the mall's abercrombie and fitch), just because i have social proof for working there and im friends with all my attractive co-worker females which makes me look cooler; basically, all i really have to do is comment about seomthing and i can start talking to the girl. ill leave, talk to a co-worker and come back later, and usually thats enough to warrant me sufficient interest and then a name/number.

however, today at work, i saw this really hot girl who i totally wannted to get with. this girl though, didn't give me the time of day at all. aside from a "sorry" when i said "excuse me" as i was walking by.

when she left, i started thinking about why i cojuldnt get her number, and why i didint just do a more straight forward approach and eventually i realized that i pretty much just get girls because of my looks. and the pua knowledge that i do have, i generally just use to keep girls interested in me and to keep me from getting whipped. i know nothingabout picking up chicks who dont alreayd have a physical attraction.

how can i learn more about that part of my game?

comments are cool too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No guy gets girls just by being good looking. If you get girls easily then you're doing something right.
 

venser

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im not completely clueless to getting girls, but i just find that im not able to pick up chicks if there isnt physical attraction there to start wtih.
 

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You have finally discovered that looks are over rated and some women see past that.

To some women a good looking guy is burden. Or she may just have been insecure, cause she has low self esteem.

My guess is she was just trying to some condoms and you interffered
 

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i've never really thought of myself as good looking. in fact i pride myself on being really down to earth. i guess what im trying to say is that all this time, what i thought was "game" was acutally just due to my looks.


if that makes any sense?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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