"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just came from date (thanks to jinja ) what to do now

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I just came back from a date with a woman I met online ,I followed advise of some poeple to not be flirty with her , the only thing I did is that I took her hand to see her ring and I was laid back as I am not that interested .
it was a little awkward because I felt she turned off when I started talking because she knew I am Immigrant
she was playing with her hair
she told me she will go vacation for 10 days (do you guys see in this invitation to call her after 10 days ) .


we just said bye and left the cafe

do you guys think there will be next date , and is there any thing I have to do now like texting her ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evan12 said:
I just came back from a date with a woman I met online ,I followed advise of some poeple to not be flirty with her , the only thing I did is that I took her hand to see her ring and I was laid back as I am not that interested .
it was a little awkward because I felt she turned off when I started talking because she knew I am Immigrant
she was playing with her hair
she told me she will go vacation for 10 days (do you guys see in this invitation to call her after 10 days ) .


we just said bye and left the cafe

do you guys think there will be next date , and is there any thing I have to do now like texting her ?
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There will be no next date unless she texts you the next day immidiately, thats how it works.
 
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we are not in her mind so how would we know? You need to step up and make the next date
 
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omega05 said:
we are not in her mind so how would we know? You need to step up and make the next date
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Are u kidding me, i will bet you $5000 there is no next date, from what I read, you left the cafe and just said bye and she didnt text you after? really u think thats going anywhere? lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are u kidding me, i will bet you $5000 there is no next date, from what I read, you left the cafe and just said bye and she didnt text you after? really u think thats going anywhere? lol
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Shut up, troll.


I just came back from a date with a woman I met online ,I followed advise of some poeple to not be flirty with her , the only thing I did is that I took her hand to see her ring and I was laid back as I am not that interested .
it was a little awkward because I felt she turned off when I started talking because she knew I am Immigrant
she was playing with her hair
she told me she will go vacation for 10 days (do you guys see in this invitation to call her after 10 days ) .


we just said bye and left the cafe

do you guys think there will be next date , and is there any thing I have to do now like texting her ?
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The only way to find out is to ask her.

You can't expect all first dates to be winners, so don't worry too much about it.
 
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What idiot told you not to be flirty?
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well it was article I read online , I was very flirty before in the first date and I was thinking may be should try this this time
but it is really bad advise
 
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well it was article I read online , I was very flirty before in the first date and I was thinking may be should try this this time
but it is really bad advise
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So did she text you? I am anxious to know what the answer is to confirm if my theory is correct.

If you don't know for sure, she doens't make it clear to you that there will be a second date, that means there won't be a second date.

Girls that want a second date will make it clear on the first date they want the second date.
 
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I get the vibe she probably didn't have the attraction because you may have made it seem like it was a business meeting.

Next time just be yourself man.. don't try to follow so many rules, if you want to be flirty do it.. if you want to compliment her do it.. but don't do it with a goal to impress her.. do it because that is how you are. When you try hard, you end up doing idiotic things.

Sincerity will get you farther than being ungenuine.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she didnt text me (any way she is in vacation for 10 days in case that wasn a lie )

I get the vibe she probably didn't have the attraction because you may have made it seem like it was a business meeting.

Next time just be yourself man.. don't try to follow so many rules, if you want to be flirty do it.. if you want to compliment her do it.. but don't do it with a goal to impress her.. do it because that is how you are. When you try hard, you end up doing idiotic things.

Sincerity will get you farther than being ungenuine.
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I was myself , and very myself , I just didn't flirt with her
 
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