just came from date (thanks to jinja ) what to do now

[evan12]

I just came back from a date with a woman I met online ,I followed advise of some poeple to not be flirty with her , the only thing I did is that I took her hand to see her ring and I was laid back as I am not that interested .
it was a little awkward because I felt she turned off when I started talking because she knew I am Immigrant
she was playing with her hair
she told me she will go vacation for 10 days (do you guys see in this invitation to call her after 10 days ) .


we just said bye and left the cafe

do you guys think there will be next date , and is there any thing I have to do now like texting her ?

 

[gspshields2]

I just came back from a date with a woman I met online ,I followed advise of some poeple to not be flirty with her , the only thing I did is that I took her hand to see her ring and I was laid back as I am not that interested .
it was a little awkward because I felt she turned off when I started talking because she knew I am Immigrant
she was playing with her hair
she told me she will go vacation for 10 days (do you guys see in this invitation to call her after 10 days ) .


we just said bye and left the cafe

do you guys think there will be next date , and is there any thing I have to do now like texting her ?

There will be no next date unless she texts you the next day immidiately, thats how it works.

 

[omega05]

we are not in her mind so how would we know? You need to step up and make the next date

 

[gspshields2]

we are not in her mind so how would we know? You need to step up and make the next date

Are u kidding me, i will bet you $5000 there is no next date, from what I read, you left the cafe and just said bye and she didnt text you after? really u think thats going anywhere? lol

 

[SharinganUser]

What idiot told you not to be flirty?

 

[WorkingDJ]

What idiot told you not to be flirty?

This. Dumbest advice ever.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Are u kidding me, i will bet you $5000 there is no next date, from what I read, you left the cafe and just said bye and she didnt text you after? really u think thats going anywhere? lol

Shut up, troll.

I just came back from a date with a woman I met online ,I followed advise of some poeple to not be flirty with her , the only thing I did is that I took her hand to see her ring and I was laid back as I am not that interested .
it was a little awkward because I felt she turned off when I started talking because she knew I am Immigrant
she was playing with her hair
she told me she will go vacation for 10 days (do you guys see in this invitation to call her after 10 days ) .


we just said bye and left the cafe

do you guys think there will be next date , and is there any thing I have to do now like texting her ?

The only way to find out is to ask her.

You can't expect all first dates to be winners, so don't worry too much about it.

 

[evan12]

What idiot told you not to be flirty?

well it was article I read online , I was very flirty before in the first date and I was thinking may be should try this this time
but it is really bad advise

 

[gspshields2]

well it was article I read online , I was very flirty before in the first date and I was thinking may be should try this this time
but it is really bad advise

So did she text you? I am anxious to know what the answer is to confirm if my theory is correct.

If you don't know for sure, she doens't make it clear to you that there will be a second date, that means there won't be a second date.

Girls that want a second date will make it clear on the first date they want the second date.

 

[headFirst]

I get the vibe she probably didn't have the attraction because you may have made it seem like it was a business meeting.

Next time just be yourself man.. don't try to follow so many rules, if you want to be flirty do it.. if you want to compliment her do it.. but don't do it with a goal to impress her.. do it because that is how you are. When you try hard, you end up doing idiotic things.

Sincerity will get you farther than being ungenuine.

 

[evan12]

she didnt text me (any way she is in vacation for 10 days in case that wasn a lie )

I get the vibe she probably didn't have the attraction because you may have made it seem like it was a business meeting.

Next time just be yourself man.. don't try to follow so many rules, if you want to be flirty do it.. if you want to compliment her do it.. but don't do it with a goal to impress her.. do it because that is how you are. When you try hard, you end up doing idiotic things.

Sincerity will get you farther than being ungenuine.

I was myself , and very myself , I just didn't flirt with her