Today i was talking to my girl just like i do every day she was telling me about various things and i said some thigns that made her think i dont trust her that i was possessive i think and suddenly out of nowhere she calls me up to say that she needs to take time off just to see if she really likes me or is just used to me.
It was a total mindfvck. She went from sweet to that all in the space of an hour. Her first call was that i dont trust her and i tried to tell her i do.. the next call was her just saying flat out "I was afraid to say anything but its better i say it now than later"... it went from "i need to see if i really like u" to "I dont wana be with you, i dont need a guy"
The history of this chick is basically i stole her from her ******* guy who treated her like crap. All of her previous bfs have and to be hoenst ive also felt this distance between us.
She said the "Its me not you" thing, and i said "I know its you, you cant make eye contact with me, your afraid to get angry with me and your always so polite and arnt really yourself" - she prides herself in being able to be fake and stuff and nobody REALLY knwos her apart from her sis. I said "Hows anybody gonna know you if youre ashamed of yourself and whatever past you have.. youre just giving me the boot cos youre afraid" - anyway i talked a bunch of stuff relating to that and she just listened quietly n said she felt bad and was crying and that i was right.. and then i told her to goto sleep and call me tommorow when shes thinking straight, then i ended the call.
What the hell is teh deal with this kinda girl?? Can girls honestly be totally faceless for a long period of time.. doing nice stuff sayin nice stuff etc etc.. even making plans with me for the future and suddenly blam.. does it have anything to do with the fact shes always been treated like crap with guys and is therefore super protective of herself and fake and doesnt talk about herself??
what do i do from here? Im thinking to ignore her, but shes stubborn. Cant help thinking if i take the "I dont care approach" shell be like "Ok im gona just block it all down inside like i do everything and i dont NEED him anyway" - which i guess is her call..
But what do i do if i want her?? cos ive dated 100 girls and i have everything in common personality/interest wise with this one, shes just distant.. is it cos im a rebound or? grrrrr! What to do!?
It was a total mindfvck. She went from sweet to that all in the space of an hour. Her first call was that i dont trust her and i tried to tell her i do.. the next call was her just saying flat out "I was afraid to say anything but its better i say it now than later"... it went from "i need to see if i really like u" to "I dont wana be with you, i dont need a guy"
The history of this chick is basically i stole her from her ******* guy who treated her like crap. All of her previous bfs have and to be hoenst ive also felt this distance between us.
She said the "Its me not you" thing, and i said "I know its you, you cant make eye contact with me, your afraid to get angry with me and your always so polite and arnt really yourself" - she prides herself in being able to be fake and stuff and nobody REALLY knwos her apart from her sis. I said "Hows anybody gonna know you if youre ashamed of yourself and whatever past you have.. youre just giving me the boot cos youre afraid" - anyway i talked a bunch of stuff relating to that and she just listened quietly n said she felt bad and was crying and that i was right.. and then i told her to goto sleep and call me tommorow when shes thinking straight, then i ended the call.
What the hell is teh deal with this kinda girl?? Can girls honestly be totally faceless for a long period of time.. doing nice stuff sayin nice stuff etc etc.. even making plans with me for the future and suddenly blam.. does it have anything to do with the fact shes always been treated like crap with guys and is therefore super protective of herself and fake and doesnt talk about herself??
what do i do from here? Im thinking to ignore her, but shes stubborn. Cant help thinking if i take the "I dont care approach" shell be like "Ok im gona just block it all down inside like i do everything and i dont NEED him anyway" - which i guess is her call..
But what do i do if i want her?? cos ive dated 100 girls and i have everything in common personality/interest wise with this one, shes just distant.. is it cos im a rebound or? grrrrr! What to do!?
