Just broke up with my girlfriend, feel great!

[SamMalone]

Man, I was worried about my girl breaking up with me, and now that its happened I feel even better than when I was with her. She was pretty as hell (prob a 9/10 to me) but she had a bad past. The sex had been going down for a while when today she told me she thinks sex is dirty and doesn't want to do it often anymore. We discussed it and she said once every few months Well that wasn't going to happen so I told her this wasnt going to work out. She was in tears while I was indifferent the whole time. This girl had been sexually abused in the past hence her sex is dirty thing, but this was not a good relationship for me.

 

[SamMalone]

When you got back with her did she give you lots of sex? I'm not going to, but I was just wondering how she reacted. I'm guessing she gave you lots of sex again at first then stopped again?

 

[SamMalone]

Ha she already texted me at midnight. Can't let this girl back in my life though.

 

[EvilAgenda]

wow,,you saw it coming,,AND you denied her.... RESPECT BRO.

now she just won't leave you alone hoping to get u back,,lol.

 

[Jay Dee]

What I think might have worked better was to say you weren't happy with her new rule, not actually break up with her but go on a very cold timeout with her for a week maybe 2 (and start getting the plates out), no calls, hardly any contact, you know the usual freeze out tactics.

By straightaway breaking up and then getting back with her (if you ever did), you appear inconsistent hence the lack of respect from them later on usually. Whereas if you froze her out for a little bit on this occasion, you have the chance of keeping a HB, your respect, and the way they perceive you.

If she changed her colours then you've effectively trained her - after all she was trying to drop a power play on you with the controlling behaviour. If she didn't chase then it was a bit of a lost situation anyway, she may have had already had someone lined up, etc.

Anyway boss, good luck. If you ever get swayed back to her, we are human after all and make mistakes, then make sure to keep your eyes wide open for any signs of infidelity or disrespect as these are usually the first signs before they move on, no smoke without fire as they say.

 

[SamMalone]

I did tell her I didn't like that rule, she turned it around on me and said I was only thinking about sex blah blah blah I broke it up with her.

She texted me last night/this morning around midnight asking if I was sleeping but I didnt respond.

 

[DonGorgon]

most women have been touched etc when very young cause males are very desperate and often see you females as an easy opportunity.. its usually a family member or family friend

 

[amoka]

Be careful, you you may find yourself with her again...

 

[Jay Dee]

I did tell her I didn't like that rule, she turned it around on me and said I was only thinking about sex blah blah blah I broke it up with her...

Again didn't need to do a vocal break, should have said ok cool and let your actions speak by disappearing. She isn't making a lot of time for your wants, you aren't going to make a lot of tiime for her, simple.

She would reconsider those thoughts after your timeout, after all you wouldn't be getting it from her for a week or 2 so yeah as she said it ain't all about sex (hopefully you'll be working some other plates preparing for the worst)

 

[pua1989]

what is it with girls that they all say they have been sexually abused

 

[DonGorgon]

what is it with girls that they all say they have been sexually abused

most women have been touched etc when very young cause males are very desperate and often see you females as an easy opportunity.. its usually a family member or family friend

 

[SamMalone]

Ha, so yesterday, not even a day after we broke up, this girl came to my house and basically said she was a bad girlfriend, she made a horrible mistake blah blah blah. I acted indifferent and told her we're not back together, but I told her we could hang out in next weekend, because I'm busy this weekend. She said ok and tried to call me last night but I was out with friends and didnt pick up.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Congradulations.