"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just broke up with girlfriend :/ really hurtin

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dhizzyballuh

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Just got out of a 14 month LDR, couldn't deal with the distance. Was only seeing her like 2-3 times a month and it was getting really old especially cause she was so shy and quiet and she always shut down my attempts at sex. Last night was the last straw and I want to move on but I still have a lot of emotions for this girl.
Thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AlexLefty

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2 to 3 times a month?
Hopefully that means you have a very low emotional connection with her.
I feel you though, just broke up with my gf, and i was sad for a bit. Then I hung out with friends, went sarging, and got my ****ed rubbed last night and everything seems to be better.

Just distract yourself with other stuff, but the best thing to distract youreslf with is another girl, it really helps.
 
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