"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just broke up with girlfriend :/ really hurtin

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dhizzyballuh

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Just got out of a 14 month LDR, couldn't deal with the distance. Was only seeing her like 2-3 times a month and it was getting really old especially cause she was so shy and quiet and she always shut down my attempts at sex. Last night was the last straw and I want to move on but I still have a lot of emotions for this girl.
Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AlexLefty

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2 to 3 times a month?
Hopefully that means you have a very low emotional connection with her.
I feel you though, just broke up with my gf, and i was sad for a bit. Then I hung out with friends, went sarging, and got my ****ed rubbed last night and everything seems to be better.

Just distract yourself with other stuff, but the best thing to distract youreslf with is another girl, it really helps.
 
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