"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just Be

playa99

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This is a quick tip to anyone and everyone on this board...

JUST BE!

Stop worrying about every little move she makes and how you could have done things differently concentrate on what you do and how GOOD your life can be!

You will crash and burn
You will make a fool of yourself
You will be rejected

THAT is as bad as it gets, there is no major science at play, out of all the content of the DJ bible, the underlying message ALL of the way through every post is CONFIDENCE & being COMFORTABLE with yourself. Grasp this and combine it with a willingness to learn and improve and BOOM, your half way there!

WOMEN are not the be all and end all of life, they are great and there is NOTHING wrong with desiring women, but they are only one aspect of a complete life!

Improving your value improves the calibre of women you can get, if you present yourself well and are commited to self improvement then the world is your oyster, looks help but it is who you are what counts!

Live your life on your terms and do WHAT YOU WANT.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ColonelKilgore

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The single best advice you can give any man. Be comfortable with who you are and with what you like and what you dont like.
 
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