"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just be yourself...

remedy

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I have realised that there IS a time when you can just be yourself. It is when you have BECOME yourself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ok?:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by bbestar
NEVER BE YOURSELF, be the NEW SELF
I think that's what he's saying. I mean seroiusly, if you ARE a Don Juan, why wouldn't you want to be yourself? Of course you would.
It's the AFCs that have trouble with the belief "be yourself".
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by remedy
I have realised that there IS a time when you can just be yourself. It is when you have BECOME yourself.

Freakin turnip truck almost clipped my BMW.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by remedy
I have realised that there IS a time when you can just be yourself. It is when you have BECOME yourself.
that made absolutely no sense.
you always ARE yourself, its just that you can either put on an act, or show yourself.
 
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