Just be yourself?

[Tails]

People say: Just Be Yourself.

Well I think I am being myself, at school, I am pretty immature. Not always, but only sometimes. In a way, I hate it and in a way I like it. I do not understand why I am feeling this way.

Sometimes I just want to settle down and mature a bit. I am 19 years old christ sake. All I seem to do is yell out: "hey sexy!" or something stupid like that to all the girls that walk past. I don't think many girls like this as they think I am just a typical sex fiend guy (like most). I am not saying sex is bad, I would just like to settle for a LTR for once. But I can't seem to understand this immature person I am at school. I'm only usually that way around friends. It seems like when they're around me at school, it encourages me to just do mad things. I even sing out loud in class, laugh alot, make jokes all the time (ALL the time)... everyone else besides me and my pals are always so serious and quiet, they hardly ever talk. It's always just us guys.

Sometimes I wonder if that's the way we should be. Is it time for me to grow up?

 

[vectorz]

Don't ever be sorry for being a sexual male. Women love to play that type of guilt trip on guys and it works. That's one of the greatest ways to demasculinise men. When my gf calls me a perv, I go 'yup'. And she just loves it.

 

[Walk this Way]

It's certainly possible to do both. Never be the same person everyday.

 

[Big Pappy]

First, let me congratulate you on identifying the "problem". Now, you just need a name for it.

When you act "immature" around your friends, it's really nothing more than your ego taking control of you. You are trying to show your buddies how fearless you are with women, but it's not quite working out for you, as far as I could read into your post.

Being a "player" or a PUA or a Don Juan requires a modest amount of discipline. The next time you see a sexy girl go by, go up and whisper to her. Just tell her a little white lie about how glad you were that she walked by, as she provided a great opportunity to excuse yourself from your friends, as they never seem to kow what they want to do for fun. Alternatively, you know exactly what you'd like to do; take a pretty girl by the hand and engage in a chat a bit more lively than with your buddies.

Typically, when people walk by, it's because they are on their way somewhere, so the approach isn't likely to work very well. However, since they are on their way somewhere, it's a perfect reason to get her digits to spend some time with her later.

best of luck.

 

[Player_Supreme]

If being yourself got you to where you are...then why would you want to keep doing that?

Everybody on this site is self made. If you don't like the results that you've achieved then you need to remake yourself into the person who can achieve what you desire.

 

[vectorz]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
If being yourself got you to where you are...then why would you want to keep doing that?

Everybody on this site is self made. If you don't like the results that you've achieved then you need to remake yourself into the person who can achieve what you desire.

See, that's the thing. Most of these guys aren't being the real 'themselves'. They're being a 'pressured by society and inhibition' version of themselves. Ever go to Cancun? You let loose and really discover who you are when you don't have any of societies expectations and inhibitions on you. Now THAT's the true 'being yourself' I'm talking about. Good argument tho, Supreme. That crack must be wearing off.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by vectorz
See, that's the thing. Most of these guys aren't being the real 'themselves'. They're being a 'pressured by society and inhibition' version of themselves. Ever go to Cancun? You let loose and really discover who you are when you don't have any of societies expectations and inhibitions on you. Now THAT's the true 'being yourself' I'm talking about. Good argument tho, Supreme. That crack must be wearing off.

1. Sorry kid, I've never done hard drugs. I did try pot about 25 years ago once. "I am reality, I don't need this ****" Platoon

2. I don't need to go to cancun to just "be myself". I don't need to go somewhere else to discover who "I" really am or what my inhibitions are.

3. I think I wrote about this with how to tell if your really an alpha male thread. You can't pretend **** is what I've found out. You need to change the person inside then work your way ******d.

 

[vectorz]

^^ Huh? I didn't understand half of that. Most of it was censored out.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Let me break it down into ABC's for you:


1. Sorry kid, I've never done hard drugs. I did try pot about 25 years ago once. "I am reality, I don't need this shyt" Platoon (it was a movie staring this old guy named Charlie Sheen

2. I don't need to go to cancun to just "be myself". I don't need to go somewhere else to discover who "I" really am or what my inhibitions are.

3. I think I wrote about this with how to tell if your really an alpha male thread. You can't pretend shyt is what I've found out. You need to change the person inside then work your way out-ward .



I do not know why the sensors didn't like the word out-ward but to me it's pretty easy to figure it out...but I guess not everybody can do crossword puzzles either.

 

[vectorz]

Well, for one, I couldn't think of any bad words you could put in place of that 'out-ward'.

Second, I believe 'out' would've sufficed. 'out-ward' doesn't even sound right, my ebonic friend.

 

[MetalFortress]

0utwar is banned because of that site that people would always spam with. And vectorz, quit spamming this thread with your overcritical drivel.

 

[vectorz]

Originally posted by MetalFortress
0utwar is banned because of that site that people would always spam with. And vectorz, quit spamming this thread with your overcritical drivel.

Don't hate on me because your fellow 'moderator' can't moderate a discussion on his own territory. You'd think master of his own domain could handle himself better. Do you guys have a blue code or something similar to LAPD? LOL

 

[MetalFortress]

Like I said... enough drivel

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by vectorz
Well, for one, I couldn't think of any bad words you could put in place of that 'out-ward'.

Second, I believe 'out' would've sufficed. 'out-ward' doesn't even sound right, my ebonic friend.

LOL...sorry Hectorc...outw-ard is the correct useage that I wanted to use. Out just doesn't convey what I was trying to teach you.

I think Metal already explained about that word...and I thank him for his information.

Hectuh zee...tisk tisk tisk...let's not start something we can't finish. I for one will just chalk it up to the uneducatable and call it a day.

 

[vectorz]

Hey, if you take joy in petty arguments, especially one that you're wrong (inside out-ward? HA) fine. You can have it. At this point, I can see your desperate enough to take anything you can. Just like I give a homeless guy some money, I'm throwing you a bone. Not all of us can be fortunate, I suppose.