Just Be Yourself!

[Jitterbug]

To "just be yourself", you need to figure out the answer to the question "Who am I?"

Good luck with that. It's driven many philosophers insane.

It's a life journey to find the answer.

 

[playa99]

lol i think if you're just going to be yourself, you need to be your ideal self, like tyler durden in fight club, edward norton views tyler as his ideal self, he looks how he wants to look, he fvcks how he wants to fvck, you get my drift lol, like jitterbug said, you need to find out who you are to just be yourself.
If an AFC is just himself, then he will be an AFC. You need to imagine how you would like your persona to be, not fantasise over it, and take steps towards doing it, and eventually you will be able to use the advice, "just be yourself" cause you will be comfortable in your own skin

 

[scottfall]

To me, this is the whole idea behind this website/forum. Helping boys find the path that will lead them to becoming men. Women want men, plain and simple. It dosent matter if he plays videogames, watches Star Trek or is in prision for murder.. as long as he is a man.

 

[Jitterbug]

I've been trying to find that out myself...

And isn't "WHo Am I?" Also a Jackie Chan movie, not that THAT has any relevance...

Yup, and it has the best Jackie's stunt ever as well as a very good reason for guys to never wear a tie.

 

[IsiMan84]

I tried wearing the same type of clothes the next night to a different bar, except no headband, and not as successful. Quite the different crowd though. But tonight I'm going to the same place I did well at last week so we'll see what's up with that.

 

[chinwaggler]

change what you are, not who you are.

 

[IsiMan84]

I do everything pretty much the same as normal, just that the different appearance attracts a few more girls and is definitely a conversation starter. If I can increase the amount of approaches or number closes because of something as insignificant as a headband or sunglasses, then sign me up. I'm still the same person.