"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just Be Yourself!

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To "just be yourself", you need to figure out the answer to the question "Who am I?"

Good luck with that. It's driven many philosophers insane. :D

It's a life journey to find the answer.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol i think if you're just going to be yourself, you need to be your ideal self, like tyler durden in fight club, edward norton views tyler as his ideal self, he looks how he wants to look, he fvcks how he wants to fvck, you get my drift lol, like jitterbug said, you need to find out who you are to just be yourself.
If an AFC is just himself, then he will be an AFC. You need to imagine how you would like your persona to be, not fantasise over it, and take steps towards doing it, and eventually you will be able to use the advice, "just be yourself" cause you will be comfortable in your own skin
 
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To me, this is the whole idea behind this website/forum. Helping boys find the path that will lead them to becoming men. Women want men, plain and simple. It dosent matter if he plays videogames, watches Star Trek or is in prision for murder.. as long as he is a man.
 
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Wolf said:
I've been trying to find that out myself...

And isn't "WHo Am I?" Also a Jackie Chan movie, not that THAT has any relevance...
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Yup, and it has the best Jackie's stunt ever as well as a very good reason for guys to never wear a tie.
 
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I tried wearing the same type of clothes the next night to a different bar, except no headband, and not as successful. Quite the different crowd though. But tonight I'm going to the same place I did well at last week so we'll see what's up with that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I do everything pretty much the same as normal, just that the different appearance attracts a few more girls and is definitely a conversation starter. If I can increase the amount of approaches or number closes because of something as insignificant as a headband or sunglasses, then sign me up. I'm still the same person.
 
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