Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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just be yourself with Confidence :)

frivolousz21

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I remember reading an article in the DJ bible..and it was talking about how to not fake confidence of get caught faking.

I remember where someone said it was great with her..until she came by at 3 am..or something like that and he was up playing video games in his boxers and she left him.


if my women left me over some bullshyt she can suck it easy. :)

you dont have to stop doing the things u love just because it may not be attractive to all females....or percived to not be attractive. if you are confident you will be repsected for who you are.... :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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this is where things get a bit confusing for some people. "just be your self", "no don't be your self be a D.J."..........

Be your self means; BE COMFORATABLE IN YOUR SKIN. BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR SELF AND YOUR AILITIES. Be a man, (after all you do have balls, right?)..... I't doesn't mean be unconfident wussy (even tho you feel like it sometimes)..........

I give up, i can't explain it....:(
 

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absolutely true man.....it's the same thing we were discussing in lifeforce's thread.....i aggree
 

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S-hit, i love video games and if i a girl has a problem with me playing them at 3am in my boxers they can go f-uck themselves... theres a million girls out there who would like me for me if one doesn't
 
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