"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just be yourself with Confidence :)

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frivolousz21

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I remember reading an article in the DJ bible..and it was talking about how to not fake confidence of get caught faking.

I remember where someone said it was great with her..until she came by at 3 am..or something like that and he was up playing video games in his boxers and she left him.


if my women left me over some bullshyt she can suck it easy. :)

you dont have to stop doing the things u love just because it may not be attractive to all females....or percived to not be attractive. if you are confident you will be repsected for who you are.... :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this is where things get a bit confusing for some people. "just be your self", "no don't be your self be a D.J."..........

Be your self means; BE COMFORATABLE IN YOUR SKIN. BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR SELF AND YOUR AILITIES. Be a man, (after all you do have balls, right?)..... I't doesn't mean be unconfident wussy (even tho you feel like it sometimes)..........

I give up, i can't explain it....:(
 
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absolutely true man.....it's the same thing we were discussing in lifeforce's thread.....i aggree
 
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S-hit, i love video games and if i a girl has a problem with me playing them at 3am in my boxers they can go f-uck themselves... theres a million girls out there who would like me for me if one doesn't
 
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