"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just 'ave a look at this...

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...on a website for uni students there was a thread entitled "WHat do guys look for in a girl", and the replies were the typical b.s, personality, grace etc etc, with hardly a mention of physical attractiveness.

I posted the following, trying to make these idiots open their eyes and do something about their approval-seeking, mediocre, boring lives, and I just got flamed and show down. Why is it so hard to make non-community members see the truth?? This is the post:

"Ummm...I'm sorry but all the guys that say, "Sense of humour, intelligence grace etc etc....and good looks help but aren't important" are lying. It is in a man's DNA to be attracted primarily and almost exclusively to beauty (i.e the woman that will bear him healthy, strong and fit offspring - thats where the classic 'hourglass' figure comes from that every woman desires), everything else is just a bonus in a monagomous relationship, (ironically something else that goes against a man's natural, basic instincts).

Don't get me wromg, I used to think that getting a girlfriend then marriage then 2.4 kids and a nice house was what life was all about, but then I had a friend open my eyes...and I've not looked back since. Reply to this if you want me to point you in the same direction, TRUST me you WILL live a better life, and if you do ever get married or settle down it will be with someone who truly deserves you, as opposed to the first girl who will accept you.

Sorry to go on but this really needs to be said, any guy who disagrees with me is just pandering to the social norms imposed upon him by those around him, the media etc, but I believe every guy also knows, deep down that I am right. I mean, ask any girl whether they'd rather be beautiful or have a great personality, sense of humour etc, i think you know which one they'll choose. A girl's power and status lies primarily in the quality of man she can seduce...call me chauvenist or whatever, but you know its true so don't bother denying it.

P.S. Lads, once you accept that you've been brainwashed (sounds extreme but thats what it is in essence) and take steps to do something about it, you WILL start living a better life almost immediately, one in which you will have a much wider choice of women, but ironically won't NEED then to be happy or fulfilled...only you can do that, and you will be well on the way to achieving it."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cool. You probably pull more chicks than that entire board combined.
 

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I completely agree to an extent.

Before you even start wondering about all the other things you need to be physically attracted to a girl.

In other words, it doesn't matter how great a girls personality, if I don't like her physically there IS NO CHANCE.

The human is the only land mammal without a penis bone. We physically CANNOT do it to a chick who doesn't turn us on. (I have an unhappy story about that :whistle: )

That being said

There are plenty of girls out there who pass the physical examination.

After I have ascertained they have passed on my "sexy scale" they go onto a new scale where they are tested for intelligence, personality, trustworthiness, fun etc.

And I totally agree to feel no shame about only going after hot chicks.

Is evolution.

JJ
 

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As if women are attracted to humorous, sensible, emotional caring men.....



I hoped that at least men would be honoring their nature.

I am sad and disgusted for the men who advocate women more than women themselves do.... a**lickers to get the p**sy....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea, its the thing that everyone knows but no-one admits. I used to think it was shallow but its really not, its just natural and should be embraced.

The better man gets the better women. Simple.

...glad at least you guys get it....most of my mates think I'm crazy!
 

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L777 said:
...on a website for uni students there was a thread entitled "WHat do guys look for in a girl", and the replies were the typical b.s, personality, grace etc etc, with hardly a mention of physical attractiveness.

I posted the following, trying to make these idiots open their eyes and do something about their approval-seeking, mediocre, boring lives, and I just got flamed and show down. Why is it so hard to make non-community members see the truth?? This is the post:

"Ummm...I'm sorry but all the guys that say, "Sense of humour, intelligence grace etc etc....and good looks help but aren't important" are lying. It is in a man's DNA to be attracted primarily and almost exclusively to beauty (i.e the woman that will bear him healthy, strong and fit offspring - thats where the classic 'hourglass' figure comes from that every woman desires), everything else is just a bonus in a monagomous relationship, (ironically something else that goes against a man's natural, basic instincts).

Don't get me wromg, I used to think that getting a girlfriend then marriage then 2.4 kids and a nice house was what life was all about, but then I had a friend open my eyes...and I've not looked back since. Reply to this if you want me to point you in the same direction, TRUST me you WILL live a better life, and if you do ever get married or settle down it will be with someone who truly deserves you, as opposed to the first girl who will accept you.

Sorry to go on but this really needs to be said, any guy who disagrees with me is just pandering to the social norms imposed upon him by those around him, the media etc, but I believe every guy also knows, deep down that I am right. I mean, ask any girl whether they'd rather be beautiful or have a great personality, sense of humour etc, i think you know which one they'll choose. A girl's power and status lies primarily in the quality of man she can seduce...call me chauvenist or whatever, but you know its true so don't bother denying it.

P.S. Lads, once you accept that you've been brainwashed (sounds extreme but thats what it is in essence) and take steps to do something about it, you WILL start living a better life almost immediately, one in which you will have a much wider choice of women, but ironically won't NEED then to be happy or fulfilled...only you can do that, and you will be well on the way to achieving it."
Yeah, you tell them.

All of those AFC boys will never admit it, and never learn. If they flame you, just leave them be. Let them live boring AFC lives while you pull chicks left right and centre. They'll regret it when they see you in action.
 
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Wow. Looks like an excerpt from the Bible of the Keyboard Jockey. Fcuk what the evolutionary psychologists say. After you go out into the field and have some interactions with real, live women, I challenge you to come back here and honestly say that a woman's personality is merely a 'bonus'.
 

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
Wow. Looks like an excerpt from the Bible of the Keyboard Jockey. Fcuk what the evolutionary psychologists say. After you go out into the field and have some interactions with real, live women, I challenge you to come back here and honestly say that a woman's personality is merely a 'bonus'.
Done. A woman's personality is merely a bonus.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It depends on what you want. If you are only having sex and only interested in having sex, what point is any personality?

But if you're looking for a relationship....let's just say, looks and personality are important, but looks is the FIRST filter you apply to potentials. Cut the BS that you somehow, look "deep, deep down inside" and are any less superficial than any other bastard out there. That is pretentious. Admit you're as "shallow" as everyone else out there.

I just get annoyed with people who pretend they are less shallow than anyone else. Like this girl I knew. She played the self-righteous card on me. Saying she was attracted to this guy because of his personality and she didn't even think he was good looking. I looked him up and down and said, "so yeah, I guess it is a coincidence he is over 6 feet like any other guy you've been attracted to." :rolleyes: :crackup: If he was shorter with the same personality, she would not have looked twice.

P.S. Some girls really are obsessed with taller guys. Especially tiny 5 foot asian girls. :crackup:
 

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
Your friends = brainwashed by society.

You = brainwashed by academics and keyboard jockeys.
You: on crack.
 
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