Just asked the most gorgeous girl out. Is she interesetd?

[PianoGuy33]

Okay guys, so here's the story. Last Thursday, I walked back from class with this girl, a 10, no joke, she's a ****ing 10. She's sweet, dosn't drink, extremely gorgeous perfect everything. I got her number at the end of our walk and told her we should hang out, and I'd text her so she'd have my number.


I texted her, "Hey this is "my name". but she didn't reply.


So today, Tuesday, we walked back from class together again. She was telling me how one of her family members works with incubators and premature born babies, and I didn't know what that was, but I played it off as I did, and I think she knew that I didn't. So that was the one mistake. Should I have just admitted that I didn't know what that was?


Then at the end of our walk, I asked her if she wanted to go have some dinner with me this weekend. She said "Ya, we should, but I might be in "another city."


However, when we walk from, she walks right next to me, and we have interesting conversations, etc.


So what do you guys think my next move should be? Do you think she's interested, or is it too hard to say yet? If you don't think she is, do you think persistence will make her interested?

 

[Skalioppe]

If she's as hot as you say she is, she gets asked out by guys every day, probably several times a day. So far you haven't stood out enough to attract her attention, probably the contrary, you've made a bit of a d1ick of yourself by pretending you know stuff about something that (though her family member) she probably knows loads about. She seems like a nice girl, so is being polite to you, but if I'm honest all of the signs point to her not being interested.

Make her laugh and be confident, neg her too and plenty of false disqualifiers and you may improve your chances, but don't pester her too much, just spend time getting to know her and building rapport. But just a word of warning, HB9-10s tend to have their pick of the bunch and invariably pick high end Alphas.

 

[PianoGuy33]

wait, what do you mean neg her too and plenty of false disqualifiers?

 

[Skalioppe]

Negging

Summary of what I mean

 

[PianoGuy33]

Oh thanks man, that's helpful. Actually now that I think about it, I said that incubators clean stuff, so hey, maybe she thought I kinda did know what I was talking about. I honestly think if I could just go out with this girl once, I could totally raise her interest levels, what do you guys think?

 

[Fatal Jay]

lol@incubators clean stuff, she knew you didn't have a clue

everyone knows incubators was where they keep the babies in the hospital after they are born,its a glass box, that feel like being in the womb to the babies

 

[PianoGuy33]

well ****, do you think it's okay. Or should I keep pursuing, and tell her that I thought she was talking about something else or something. I mean, c'mon that one **** up couldn't have destroyed my chances.. Maybe she thought it was endearing.

 

[Fatal Jay]

stop over analyzing this, over analyzing this will mess it up for you, so what you didn't know what it was, you shouldn't care

you putting this girl on a high pedestal, treat this girl like you would treat an unattractive girl or your best buddy

when your with your best friend do you care about saying stupid things? No you don't treat her like that

but you doing to much lingering also, stop being her best friend, and ask her to hangout and when you guys hangout make sure you kino and kiss or she will be putting you in the friendzone

 

[PianoGuy33]

Ya, you guys are right. Just gotta go spin some more plates

 

[playa99]

How gorgeous the girl is could be why your over analyzing all of this, ask her out and let it take its natural course.. Move on if you get a negative response!

Get talking to more tens and you will not be thinking of just her

 

[PianoGuy33]

Okay guys. Final question. I have another option. I could text her now and say, "Hey, since you may be busy this weekend, why don't you just come over and study for this test we have tomorrow instead at (this time)?"

Do you guys think I should text her and ask her this after I already asked her out once today, or should I just not.

 

[E_Sex]

Well like most of the guys here have said stop over analyzing the situation just go out there and have fun with her. I wouldn't recommend dinner as a first date... ever.

But just go out there and spin more plates you know, she's just one girl and you're (hoping to be) a Don Juan. You honestly shouldn't worry about her. Yeah, you might have messed up your chances with her already but don't sweat it. Just stay persistant and confident and she may come around.

Also never lie to a girl, it's not worth it for many reasons. Just stay honest, girls will often know you're lying if you don't play it off cool enough, and a Don Juan is secure enough with himself to know he doesn't know everything.

 

[PianoGuy33]

Ya, honestly, I'm totally down with forgetting about her. I was just wondering if you think it would come off as needy or pushy to text her up now and invite her to come study tonight?


But if I do it, I gotta do it soon, before the days gets too old, what are your guys advice? Should I ask her to come over to my place in a text and study for this test tonight?

 

[PianoGuy33]

Okay so I went ahead and texted her. She said she has a meeting with some school function tonight, but she used some exclaimation points and said sorry. She also said that she would let me know when she was free soon. It sounds like she has some interest, but it sucks that the ball is on her playing court now. i should be the one letting her know when I am free. I guess I'll just stop calling or texting her and go spin some other plates. Until she gets back to me, (if ever.) It's all good, it was worth a shot.

 

[cola]

Don't neg her. Find another chick in the class that's semi hot, start bonding with her and show the other chick minimal attention..
Play it right you get 2 plates

 

[Harry Wilmington]

I like to make things really, REALLY simple when determining if a girl likes me. Allow me to do the same for you. Quote:

I asked her if she wanted to go have some dinner with me this weekend. She said "Ya, we should, but I might be in "another city."

And:

Okay so I went ahead and texted her. She said she has a meeting with some school function tonight, but she used some exclaimation points and said sorry. She also said that she would let me know when she was free soon.

In sentence #1, you asked her out for "this weekend", i.e. Friday, Saturday or Sunday. She said she "might" be busy, but didn't give you an alternative date and/or time that she would "definitely" be available. No bueno.

In sentence #2, you asked her out for what I'm assuming is that night, and she said she had a school function. However, she didn't say what time the school function let out (if you're doing dinner, most restaurants close at 11 - a meeting that gets out at 9 still gives her and you two hours to eat). And, once again, she didn't give you an alternative date and/or time she would "definitely" be available. No bueno.

When girls like you, they:

A: Make time for you - girls always make time for the things they WANT to do
B: Make it EASY for you to go out with them by supplying you with dates and times that will work
C: Counter-offer with alternative dates and times that WILL work should yours not work.

And girls, like everyone else in the world, tend to know their schedules. Especially them - they're more organized than most men are.

Synopsis: She's not interested. She's doing what most girls do: passive-aggressively blowing you off in hopes that you'll eventually get the hint and move on.

Hope this helps!

 

[VladPatton]

I concur, she has low to no interest. She would of given clear dates and times for meet ups if she really wanted to go out with you. Why wouldn't she? Would you be eating from a dumpster if you had 10 million dollars? No, you'd do whatever you's simple go and get your favorite food with no worries.

In regards to the incubator incident, this is why we always advise guys to work on being well rounded and to 'work on themselves', so you know about a lot of different things in the world.

Not bashing you, man, this shıt happens, just gotta find a chick that is 100% into you. Hell, we all should be so lucky to find that.

 

[nismo-4]

Women who are interested won't confuse you. Nor will they send mixed signals. Mixed signals is low/no interest. Don't delude yourself otherwise.

Don't you understand that she's dropping hints that she isn't interested in your ass? Your princess is in another castle. Judge nismo orders you to go ghost and spin more plates.

Women do the choosing, and she's not choosing your ass.

Case closed. Exit stage left.

 

[PianoGuy33]

Ya you guys are right, just gotta go out and get some more plates to spin. Thanks for the advice gentlemen!

 

[Fatal Jay]

I wont lie to you, it sucks, but you will get over it, this chick is showing low interest so just go for more girls don't get bummed out about it, everyone been there that's why you cant get caught up when you first meet up with a chick or fall head over heels