I agree with this but a lot of guys don't have this or talk about it too soon(lack of calibration)In my opinion letting your intent go in a confident & witty manner is great way to check how to girl responses.
PS. What's OLD messaging?
Convo will go like this with a lot of monkey primates out there:
Monkey: Your tits look great and I wanna taste them someday
Her: silence or some get lost @sshole(unless you're chad, then she'll giggle)
OLD = Online Dating - Messaging