"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just another reason why attractive older women are the sexiest...

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THEY ARE RARE!! While there are plenty of attractive women in their 20's and early 30's, this # significantly drops once women pass the age of 35.

What percentage of women who are in their late 30's, 40's and early 50's still look sexually attractive? Not sure what the exact number is, but I am sure it is QUITE LOW. Most women in this age group now have double chins, sagging skin and are overweight. Alot of women who were hot in their 20's and early 30's, no longer are once they hit the above aged group.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think as men get older, older women become more attractive. That is the case for me. Not that I wouldnt want to bang away on a fresh piece of 18 year old vagina.
 

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johnny_depp said:
yep older ladies are hotter in my opinon.
And in my opinion too. I've always said this on here, but always get criticized for it.
 

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Yup. If a girl pays attention to her diet and fitness, their bodies still get hotter and they age quite gracefully.

This girl 10 years ago http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com//img/90535/progresspic/6019orig.jpg

This girl today, at age 39
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/photo/data/505/000_hk_ct_07_sm.jpg

Her profile
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/photo/showphoto.php?photo=924371&ppuser=90794

I rather date a 35 year old fit/healthy women who'll keep her hot athletic figure into her late 40's than a hot 20 year old binge drinker who'll develop noticeable amounts of face fat by the time she's 24.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spesmilitis said:
Yup. If a girl pays attention to her diet and fitness, their bodies still get hotter and they age quite gracefully.

This girl 10 years ago http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com//img/90535/progresspic/6019orig.jpg

This girl today, at age 39
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/photo/data/505/000_hk_ct_07_sm.jpg

Her profile
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/photo/showphoto.php?photo=924371&ppuser=90794

I rather date a 35 year old fit/healthy women who'll keep her hot athletic figure into her late 40's than a hot 20 year old binge drinker who'll develop noticeable amounts of face fat by the time she's 24.
Holy sh!t
 

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Wow..for once I actually ... agree with mahon83050 :eek:

The universe is probably going to implode or something.
 

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I remember seeing parts of some show on t.v. with tennis superstar Mark Phillipousis(sp)..where he had to chose between an older woman and a younger one..

These older women were like 35 plus, and completely smoking. Great personalities..the whole nine.


I personally think Kelly Kramer is the hottest movie star. John Travoltas wife..whe definetly got better with age.

absolutely adorable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Once she hits 30 it becomes much harder for her to get pregnant. Less fertile. That is great. Most of my recent ladies have been 35 or older with kids. That is some good stuff. They smell a little different but small price to pay.
 

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Yes....older, athletic(age 35-up) women are the bomb. If they still have the discipline to stay in shape- those are the real keepers. They are confident, have almost no hang-ups, are not jealous, don't feel any need to lie to you, etc. The best part is that the single, older ones are 100% independent too. They can live with us, or live without us. They really don't "need" anything anymore. However, they prefer men who can appreciate those qualities. They never sweat the small stuff anymore, and no longer play games with men. I call them "refined women".....and they are rare.
 
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