"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just acquired new plate yesterday first time kinda have 2 girls just few q's

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If both women your seeing not really serious do you just keep them separate do you ever tell either of them that you are seeing one of the other or do you just keep it on the DL? Its cool because it felt so natural when I was with her last night being me and being that type of male it just came out natural I wasn't being emotional or needy she seemed clinging onto me more then anything Im not really attracted to this girl but shes doable lol. What are some great first dates you guys do BTW? Seems like Dave and Busters works for me but want to know if any other ideas you guys have?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What exactly are you planning on telling them?
Are you laying both of them?
If not then they are just your friends right?
So what are you going to tell them that will not sound completely presumptuous?

"Hi my name is Lonewolflegend and I have another friend that's a girl."

All it's gonna do is piss them off either because they will think you are showing off, or because they will think you are some kind of player (or just trying hard to be)

The plate thing is not something you have to explain or be ashamed about. You use the same "friends are people that are trying to bang me" mentality women have. And spin plates on that premise. Those girls are by all means and always in conversation your "freinds". Even if you bang one... "friends". Never speak about what you do with them, or if they are cool or not.
 
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Im not sure because ive never slept with 2 women when im seeing them trying to see them seperate u know??

So do i need to keep them both seperate and never mention them and just see them seperate days etc..?

Ive been sleeping with my first one this one just met last night and slept with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thelonewolflegend said:
What if any of them ask also do i not tell them the truth?
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Women dont usually ask this unless they finds reasons to, so as long as you don't give yourself away you dont have to say anything. Telling a girl that you have another girl is a real test of game. You have to see it as a hoop, making a girl accept that you have another girl is one of the biggest hoops, its on the same level as getting her to tattoo your name in her body.
While I've never been able to make a girl accept that i have other girls (its tough!), i know what im supposed to do:

Step 1. Make her understand that you are willing to walk away at any time. If she doesnt like something you're doing dont be afraid to tell her she can leave. Let her know that you're very serious about having a thressome with her and make plans for it, and start planting the seed of how you want to have multiple girls.

Step 2. You must make her do things for you that she wont do or has never done for anybody else. Such as certain acts of sex, make her do some sacrifice for you, like give up a friendship or get rid of something that she values, or one of my favorites, create drama and make her beg you for forgiveness. Again, you must be willing to let her go if she denies you.

Step 3. Start preparing her for it. Make her aware that you have friends that are girls and that you're attracted to some of them. You're telling her this because you value honesty in the relationship. If she doesnt like it she can walk away.

Step 4. If she is still with you then she's ready. Let her know that you are getting serious with another girl and that you hope shes ok with your dream of having multiple girls. Make it clear that this something you want and that you are willing to let her walk away if she doesnt accept it.

Step 5. Do the same with the other girl.

You can do all the steps in a matter of 3 or 4 months, but not less. I've yet to get past step 3 because either the girl cant take it anymore or my conscience starts getting the best of me around this point. But I know the model works as I was taught by someone who is a pro at this, who in turn learned it from a professional pimp.

Best of luck.
 
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