"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have you noticed how, what ever personality you have or look you have, not every girl will like you. Well of course you have. There are certain things which are good with out exception, such as confidence. As for the way you dress, just look fashionably good to maximize the number of girls that like you, it is your personality that is the biggest loser or winner, you can be a bit like a jerk or a nice guy, but there are so many other things, this is not the point of this article so just try and find the personality right for you, what I am trying to say is that rather then hopping a girl you are chasing, likes you, remember that you are the prize and you get the girls that come to you, a fisherman gets the fish that come to him, no matter how good eh is he will to get fish that do not come to him. Well do not try and get a girl that does not like you to like you, the fisherman can not catch the fish that will not come to him, you just have to concentrate on the girls that may like you, because if you go after 1 that does not want you, think how many you are missing out on by wasting your time.

So when you hear that some girls do not like C&F yes its true, but do you care, no because you can still get loads of girls with it so why worry, how ever much you try you will not get every girl to like you, just like the best band in the world will never get every one to like their music.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its obvious to you because you dont know what your talking about, if you actuly had a clue about what is discussed here, you would KNOW that this has always been a sticky situation.
 

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i read a quick tip once that said ultimatly what you must do is change you persoanilty to imrpove yourself, and once you are like this, be yourself, so yeh you must be your improved self, you can not be a fake that is bad, but if your self is an AFC you have to change what being youself is and make it natrual for you so that it is you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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