"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have you noticed how, what ever personality you have or look you have, not every girl will like you. Well of course you have. There are certain things which are good with out exception, such as confidence. As for the way you dress, just look fashionably good to maximize the number of girls that like you, it is your personality that is the biggest loser or winner, you can be a bit like a jerk or a nice guy, but there are so many other things, this is not the point of this article so just try and find the personality right for you, what I am trying to say is that rather then hopping a girl you are chasing, likes you, remember that you are the prize and you get the girls that come to you, a fisherman gets the fish that come to him, no matter how good eh is he will to get fish that do not come to him. Well do not try and get a girl that does not like you to like you, the fisherman can not catch the fish that will not come to him, you just have to concentrate on the girls that may like you, because if you go after 1 that does not want you, think how many you are missing out on by wasting your time.

So when you hear that some girls do not like C&F yes its true, but do you care, no because you can still get loads of girls with it so why worry, how ever much you try you will not get every girl to like you, just like the best band in the world will never get every one to like their music.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its obvious to you because you dont know what your talking about, if you actuly had a clue about what is discussed here, you would KNOW that this has always been a sticky situation.
 

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i read a quick tip once that said ultimatly what you must do is change you persoanilty to imrpove yourself, and once you are like this, be yourself, so yeh you must be your improved self, you can not be a fake that is bad, but if your self is an AFC you have to change what being youself is and make it natrual for you so that it is you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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