Just a reminder

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Microphone Fiend

Master Don Juan

Jan 4, 2005

I jsut started doing this recently but it helps you out a lot in terms of keeping up to date on the more inspirational posts, or posts that are attuned to your situation. Instead of having to search for them constantly or bumping up the old posts, you can just subscribe to them so they appear on your User CP page. If it is an older post, just set the timeline to 'from the beginnnig' and you're set!

That should ease up a lot of the bumping of older posts uneccesarily, save you having to copy and paste from Microsoft Word repeatedly, and drill some important ideas home...

One

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.