"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just a rant!

Cinamon

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I need a real good seeing to. I havent had any action in about 7 weeks, partly due to choice in the month of Ramadhan and partly because I am just not interested in what is out there.

In the past year I have only done it with one guy where it was up to the standards i give and expect.... and now i just dont hold high expectations when it comes to quality.

I dont want to move from guy to guy any more, but at the same time, i cant let my needs go unfulfilled. I'm beginning to be less fun to be around as well, going from being horny, to frustrated to depressed to horny again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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horaholic

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There are plenty of folks from England on here. Im sure one of them lives near your area.

Just go get laid, and shut up. you're a chick. All you need to do is give some fvck me eyes, and grab his cokk. The rest of us have to work our asses off to get some. Count your blessings.


P.S. post pics! ....Nekkid ones!
 
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horaholic said:
Just go get laid, and shut up. you're a chick. All you need to do is give some fvck me eyes, and grab his cokk. The rest of us have to work our asses off to get some. Count your blessings.
totally agree with the above. but just out of interest....honest lol,where in England are you from?
 

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Seriouly. Stop worrying about looking like a slut and go be a slut already. Nature demands it!
 

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women are so entitled they start to b*tch when they can't get laid for 7 weeks. f*** off. This is a forum for men to discuss pick-up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ever wondered if he was maybe homosexual guys?
 

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omkara said:
women are so entitled they start to b*tch when they can't get laid for 7 weeks. f*** off. This is a forum for men to discuss pick-up.
7 weeks is kind of a long time, bro.

You wanna talk about picking up women?...well here's a woman, and you just told her to f*** off. Its like if a girl came up to you in person and gave you a hug and you said "F*** off we're talking about women". Just a really odd way to behave. Its like you only want "secondary source" discussion of women", and you tell the primary sources to f*** off. Talking literally to a woman is always better than talking theoretically about them.

Cinamon can you post a pic of yourself? I'm curious to see if a women who comes on a forum like this is actually attractive or is like a horribly disfigured abomination who satisfies her need for male contact by going on a website like this.
 

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ever wondered if he was maybe homosexual guys?
How stupid are you, exactly??????

And Cinamon, why dont you call up that one guy that did you right?
 

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Its human natuere to desire the best of the best and us women have to work for that too, whether is a bloke or just great sex you are after.

I am from the West Midlands in England.

Ice882, pm me your e mail add and you can see a pic :)

My issues isnt that i can't get a guy, my issue is that I cant get a guy to give me the buzz that I want. I have tried a variety of stuff in the past decade, and i think I am just at that stage where i need to move on to the next new thing, try something new.

I think it was just my hormonal time of the month, which makes me super horny, i feel a lot calmer and reasonably content this week. Hormones can so mess you up, well they mess me up.
 

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So you fvcked one guy this year that was "up to your standards" how many were in between that DIDN'T meet your standards? Honestly?

Have you ever stopped to think that settling for the lesser males is inherently lowing YOUR value? Most guys still believe this quality woman myth, they can't handle the truth and get turned off by "slvtyness". Not to say that you are a slut, but that's how the modern day man thinks. They live in an illusion. High quality males don't want or need a woman that is sleeping with everyone, they have more self respect for themselves. They confidently want a challenge. You throwing yourself to these lesser males is lowering your value. At the same time work on your looks. I don't know where you stand on the looks scale because I've never seen you, but it's never wrong to always be improving and looking your best. You can run into a higher value male anywhere, you often meet them unexpectedly. Simply because they aren't TRYING to pick up woman. If a woman catches their interest they SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY right then and there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cinamon said:
My issues isnt that i can't get a guy, my issue is that I cant get a guy to give me the buzz that I want. I have tried a variety of stuff in the past decade, and i think I am just at that stage where i need to move on to the next new thing, try something new.
Sounds like you have the female version of AFC.

You want the badboy but the badboy isn't going to pay attention to you unless you give him an easy lay but then he is going to chuck and toss your ass aside for a hotter chick. The nice guy is always there but he doesn't make your gina tingle because he is a wimp whom you are going to walk all over and he will bore you to death.

Is that about right?!

Solution: wear skimpier cloths, wear high heels, go the gym to get in shape, and get boob job and maybe you will be able to manipulate the badboy to stick around a little while longer.
 
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