"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just a rant! (don't have to read)

jonny football hero

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I LIVE IN A PLACE DEVOID OF MEN!!!!

Every guy i try to take to pick up women, is simply, a moron. I wish another Dj lived near me. I cannot believe i used to be that stupid with women! getting really nervous and shaking!, because they are talking to hot shop assistants! damn, i can pick up women on my own, but i enjoy it more if i have a wing.

Friend one gets really nervous
Friend two : "i don't want to" (what is he? gay)
Friend three : "women don't like being approached by strangers"
****s, honestly

There. that feels alot better.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hahaha
 
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Its definately better to DJ on your own.

UNless the guy you're with is wants to DJ too which is a rarity.

And sometimes there are guys who go with you and they supposedly say they're going to DJ or whatever as well, and then they start trying to rush you to talk to some chick or some bull**** and it I can't work on getting girls with a limited time frame or some type of pressure.

One thing I also hate is being with family or parents and you're in places where hot chicks are a commonality


For some reason I cave in.

Go on your own or with a dude who knows about this site and wants to get girls.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero

****s, honestly

LOL

Luckilly I trained a wing, but go on your own.
 
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