"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just a Random Funny Story

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Just a "Success" story of sorts.

Start from the 'Beginning'. This girl, Caitlin, had this thing for me. I had recently broke up with her best friend. Noting the interest and feeling rather confident, I got a little from her. Then, she got clingy, annoying, female version of AFC. I completely stopped talking to her, even *****ed her out a couple times. Worked. From October 'til late February, never even talked to her. Obviously that didn't stop her from wanting me. I still kept in contact with a couple of her friends, who kept telling me "Catie said you(insert random compliment)". Kind of funny to me. Then, track season started. She just randomly started talking to me. No big deal. Didn't really pay attention to her. Fast forward to last Thursday. I pulled my hamstring, or something like that, and couldn't run. I was sitting up in the bleachers talking to my friend about how bored I was. He mentioned finding some chick to give me head. Jokingly, I told him "****, I bet I could get Caitie to do it right here." So I started 'flirting' with her. I was getting the kino and purposely trying to bug her and she said something along the lines of "You need to be beat". I replied with "Off?". The look on her face said it all. I ended up leaving the meet early and not taking her up on the offer, but that didn't deter her. At least once every day she has come up to me and asked me if I'm "still up for what we talked about". I know a couple good spots in the school so I might just do that. I even clarified that it was a one way agreement, and shes still up for it. Nice.

Point to this story? Stand up for yourself man. If the chick is bugging you? Bail on her. If you still talk to her, remain distant. It'll drive her crazy. Getting "close" every now and then helps as well. After reading the DJ Bible, you already knew that of course.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, the point of the story is that when you show the girl that shes just like anybody else, and that you won't take **** from her, then most of the time they will become more interested in you. Or something along those lines.
 

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something like that happened to me last year, but it nearly cost me my GF
 

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Originally posted by AdrenalynJunkee
No, the point of the story is that when you show the girl that shes just like anybody else, and that you won't take **** from her, then most of the time they will become more interested in you. Or something along those lines.
I understand that this may seem like a success to you, but really it isn't. You didn't game this girl, you don't actually like her. thats the only reason she likes you and keeps coming back for more.

this is ironically happening to me right now. I've had a girl that has been completely obsessed with me for the past 5 years. but im not trying to delude myself into thinking its because i'm gaming her. its not hard to get a girl that likes you to keep liking you if you don't find them attractive, because then you don't want to hook up with them. therefore, your not really gaming her at all, but your supreme lack of interest and attention causes her to keep coming back.

sure, we can take a lesson from this. if this is how you treat a girl, this is how she will act. but its not any great feat to do this if you don't like the girl. do this to the captain of the cheerleading squad and i'll be impressed
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no, the point of the story is that a girl wants to hook up with you and for some reason you feel the need to broadcast it to a bunch of guys on an internet site.
 

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Originally posted by AdrenalynJunkee
No, the point of the story is that when you show the girl that shes just like anybody else, and that you won't take **** from her, then most of the time they will become more interested in you. Or something along those lines.
but she was already interested in you
 
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