"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maurizio 2.0

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Hey, this is no big deal -- I'm not deliberating on whether or not to buy some chick $100 worth of crap or anything like that.

There's this chick that I'm fairly sure is into me. She gave me her number the other day and told me pretty explicitly to use it. I know her kinda well from class and I'm into her but I haven't really let her on to that too much.

I'm busy today, and throughout the weekend, but I want to text her, just to say something like 'Hey, Happy Valentines to ya.' Or whatever...

What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maurizio 2.0 said:
I'm busy today, and throughout the weekend, but I want to text her, just to say something like 'Hey, Happy Valentines to ya.' Or whatever...

What do you guys think?
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I think its a bad idea. Just make a date whenever you have time and don't mention Valentines Day.
 
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why not to mention valentines day?

i was going to call a girl today and tell her happy valentines.
 
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yea I dont see what's wrong with texting it, though I wouldn't do anything besides that. you might even add to the text "what are your plans on xx day" or whatever you need to say to schedule the date
 
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ValleyDJing

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Dude this is how it works:

Chicks play valentines up.
Dudes play valentines down.

Thats why you don't mention anything unless they do first.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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