Ok, I will try to keep it as short and to the point as possible.
Try to understand being good to a girl is not bad, but being NICE to a girl is bad. NICE is when you are trying to be good to her and that is bad. But just giving flowers or chocolates at certain occassions is perfectly fine, it shows that you care for her but don't do it to such an extent where she feels she is the most important thing in your life. Nooooo! I am not saying ignore how she feels like. Remember you care about her but she is not everything your life has got.
Regarding approach, what worked me is what I writing here. Guys, I have seen being in the right upbeat state is what is first needed for approaching and gaming. And dudes, the 3-second rule works wonders. Always remember if you can't approach within that spontaneous moment, you should not approach at all. And always do it when you feel like doing it not for the sake of doing it.
C/F things, Negs, Push-pull all these are very important in creating attraction, we all know. But one thing we should remember and that I think is the most important thing when you are gaming a girl. Two things, you need to open up or present yourself like you are an open (not stuck-up) person and she is fully enjoying herself being with you. These two things being taken care of, your game would be much easier.
This is what I have in mind right now. You would be surprised if I say that I am learning some new things everyday and I am really enjoying this whole process of becoming a PUA and I would update this thread if I come up to any new realisation.
Guys are always welcome to let what they think and rectify me if they want.
Try to understand being good to a girl is not bad, but being NICE to a girl is bad. NICE is when you are trying to be good to her and that is bad. But just giving flowers or chocolates at certain occassions is perfectly fine, it shows that you care for her but don't do it to such an extent where she feels she is the most important thing in your life. Nooooo! I am not saying ignore how she feels like. Remember you care about her but she is not everything your life has got.
Regarding approach, what worked me is what I writing here. Guys, I have seen being in the right upbeat state is what is first needed for approaching and gaming. And dudes, the 3-second rule works wonders. Always remember if you can't approach within that spontaneous moment, you should not approach at all. And always do it when you feel like doing it not for the sake of doing it.
C/F things, Negs, Push-pull all these are very important in creating attraction, we all know. But one thing we should remember and that I think is the most important thing when you are gaming a girl. Two things, you need to open up or present yourself like you are an open (not stuck-up) person and she is fully enjoying herself being with you. These two things being taken care of, your game would be much easier.
This is what I have in mind right now. You would be surprised if I say that I am learning some new things everyday and I am really enjoying this whole process of becoming a PUA and I would update this thread if I come up to any new realisation.
Guys are always welcome to let what they think and rectify me if they want.