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just a quick question.

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If you ask a girl out, how do you discuss that you're paying 50/50, what if she assumes you're paying and doesnt bring money?
 

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Why wouldn’t she bring money?

Monday night I went for coffee with this girl (she’s rich). When the bill came the waitress placed it down in front of me. I looked at the waitress in the eye and with my hand pushed the bill over to my girl. The waitress gave an awkward smile and walked off.

Anyway best course of action is to tell her straight out. "you pay for what you buy, you don’t get free meals when you come out with me".

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right before u say bye's say "remember to bring ur ticket money, bye." do it in a quick and smooth style.
 

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Is there a person that goes out in this world without money? There is no need to ask them in advance if thats what you're thinking.
 

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You will come off as cheap if you split the bill 50/50

Pay for something and let her pay for something else, eg movie tickets / popcorn n drink
 

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heres how it kinda goes these days:

unless she mentions that she is paying her own way, then its assumed that you are , proper ettiquette.

you may have a good surprize when you go to pay the bill and she says no , i pay my own way .

always have enough money on you in case she assumes you are paying. you dont want embarrassment on a date.

it is rude to ask her to pay unless you say " wanna go dutch"
because going dutch means she pays.








myself, i always liked to pay my own way on new dates. and during ltr's i would pay for the whole date every other date.

things are different now that i am about to get married. its kinda like i have my finances and he has his, and we are starting to figure out how to combine them together. this is much tougher than it seems.
 
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