RawkinKaoticStyle
Senior Don Juan
hi people , theres something that i just need some input on.
i bairly ever go out because of the fact i have no ride but this weekend i finally got an oppertunity to to get a ride to and back from the mall, so i took this as a time to fine tune my DJ skills... i was basically going to go up to every chick that i personally thought was decent.
the thing i found out about myself as i went up to chicks is that my fear lies somewhere else than usuall.I have no problem going up to any chick that i want to , and i have no problem talking to chicks , my fear lies in the AWKWARD SILENCE, i found out today that im scared of this.
people say ..... yeah heres what you do , your opening line doesent even have to bve complicated , just say HI. and the thing is , i can go approach a chick and say hi or whatever opening line it is, but its after that opening line, i just dont know what to say , and theres that silence because of course shes not going to initiate im the one that approached. This fear is the thing that makes me hesitate and finally not approach chicks when i see one.
so since i dident know what to say , and i dident want that awkward silence what i did today was basically introduced myself , and just asked for the number. No buffer convo or small tyalk because i really dont know how to improvise or anything, and doing this i got
" i have a boy friend "
" why do you want my number... no "
I have a boy friend "
i have a boyfriend "
" walked away "
im not even pissed at the reactions i got , im happy that i even approached but what i need help on is improvising conversation around some random chick .
Ive been wrecking my mind trying to think of a universal approach i can use , bvut i still think to myself.. what am i going to say next .
im talking about just a single girl walking alone or sitting at a table what ever, its weird i dont have this problem with a group of chicks.
its like i dont even want a chicks phone number , im not going to call anyway i hate phones, the thing i want is to get to know a chick , have fun conversation, just talk about shyt and laugh, and then it can get higher, if she has a BF io might get a reference to one of her friends. rather than just saying whats your number , then she says i have a BF then im like , uhhhh ok
(im just writing on my inpulse right now but if anybody has feed back or needs me to explanbe better ... reply )
i bairly ever go out because of the fact i have no ride but this weekend i finally got an oppertunity to to get a ride to and back from the mall, so i took this as a time to fine tune my DJ skills... i was basically going to go up to every chick that i personally thought was decent.
the thing i found out about myself as i went up to chicks is that my fear lies somewhere else than usuall.I have no problem going up to any chick that i want to , and i have no problem talking to chicks , my fear lies in the AWKWARD SILENCE, i found out today that im scared of this.
people say ..... yeah heres what you do , your opening line doesent even have to bve complicated , just say HI. and the thing is , i can go approach a chick and say hi or whatever opening line it is, but its after that opening line, i just dont know what to say , and theres that silence because of course shes not going to initiate im the one that approached. This fear is the thing that makes me hesitate and finally not approach chicks when i see one.
so since i dident know what to say , and i dident want that awkward silence what i did today was basically introduced myself , and just asked for the number. No buffer convo or small tyalk because i really dont know how to improvise or anything, and doing this i got
" i have a boy friend "
" why do you want my number... no "
I have a boy friend "
i have a boyfriend "
" walked away "
im not even pissed at the reactions i got , im happy that i even approached but what i need help on is improvising conversation around some random chick .
Ive been wrecking my mind trying to think of a universal approach i can use , bvut i still think to myself.. what am i going to say next .
im talking about just a single girl walking alone or sitting at a table what ever, its weird i dont have this problem with a group of chicks.
its like i dont even want a chicks phone number , im not going to call anyway i hate phones, the thing i want is to get to know a chick , have fun conversation, just talk about shyt and laugh, and then it can get higher, if she has a BF io might get a reference to one of her friends. rather than just saying whats your number , then she says i have a BF then im like , uhhhh ok
(im just writing on my inpulse right now but if anybody has feed back or needs me to explanbe better ... reply )