"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Junk Food diet linked to lower IQ

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^said it with a burger in this hand. Had to look up something smart to say on google. The guy definitely thinks he's smart and fast food is great!
 

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backseatjuan said:
^^said it with a burger in this hand. Had to look up something smart to say on google. The guy definitely thinks he's smart and fast food is great!
In western diet high amounts of fructose is everywhere. In addition to previously being linked to cancer, obesity, diabetes it is proven to affect brain function in a bad way.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/05/120515150938.htm

So backseatjuan is actually backed by science on this. In this age of everyone in America getting takeout, cooking or snagging yourself a woman who cooks is necessary.
 
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