"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jumpstarting the School's Social Life

El Schweenador

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Last year my school was really awesome, always great parties or something really fun to do. Now that that class of seniors has graduated, our school has really gone down the ****ter. The senior class is basically a bunch of burnouts, and most of the juniors, the kids in my grade, are very cliquish and are really quick to judge people. For these and other reasons, there are really never any good parties this year and there's hardly ever anything to do. The scene has gotten so bad that for a while I only went to other school's parties. One of my best friends just moved to Chicago yesterday, who was essentially a natural DJ, and it made me realize that its time for me to step up and start things up at our school rather than just give up and abandon the challenge. I'm pretty popular at my school and everyone respects me, so I think this is definetly doable. Other than having parties, which I do as frequently as possible, what can I do to stimulate the social scene at my school?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JoeyJoJoJunior

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Do what my high school did. We started "The Crew." We got t-shirts and hats made. What we do is go to all of our school's athletic events, and talk trash to the other team, and support our team. It's very crazy and only a select few are chosen to be in it. Try doing something like that, I can almost promise results.
 

lil devun

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besides house parties theres bbq's, bonfires, and bush parties. if you and your friends look old enough get some fakes and go clubbing. if you have trouble finding places for hosue parties and your friends share your concern with the ****ty social life then you should get everyone to make a sort of pact saying each weekend its a certain persons turn to host it.

or you could watch the blues get ruined by the canucks :D
 

mikel

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Same case here, I always was in the clique's though. Me and my 2 bestfriends always found parties on the weekends or we would invite girls over to our house.
 

Vigilante7

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Im in a similair situation.....Im new to my small school and 1) its a academic private school BOOOOOO and most people never have parties

Anyway what you have to do is realize that u have to expand ur borders, if ur school has no hope for parties, then it dosent, so hit up malls, amke ner friends, meet new people......ur gonna realize that if people arent focused on having fun, they wont change

The serniors / grade 12's in my school always have fun, but because im new, i dont know any of them, grade 11 is worst yr ever and thats what im in, grade 10's probably have more fun then us.........
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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blienk

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I'm not sure where you live in St. Louis, but I'm a freshman at Wash U and there are always parties going on here. You'd probably have to lie about your age if you want college chicks to take you seriously, but you'll have a hell of a time.
 
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