"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jumps in your Game: Those Aha Moments

Mr Wright

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Recently I have had a real jump in my game, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend last month, she was the first girl i ever love and since then I have had the best results I have ever had. I've had 2 same night lays one night after the other and one more since with a girl who id been chasing for about 2 years, so thats 3 new girls in the last month. I'm dating one of the hottest girls I know and getting numbers in daygame.

In general girls have just become really receptive towards me, everything seems so much easier. I'm going to say the jump has come from what happened to me in the relationship, during the relationship I guess I grew up a lot, I learnt how to take control of situations. I have to thank my ex who basically got me to man up and take the lead. Moreover, she was really hot so I guess I have the validation of that bouncing around in my mind.

More work needs to be done of course but it's a great position to be in after an emotional break up which I am still getting over.

Guys, share some of moments that advanced your game
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NewAndImproved

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I notice a lot more women chasing me these days... and women in the past who didn't seem interested now noticing that I'm-- well -- new and improved.
 

Mr Wright

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Had another leap so to speak.

Everything is becoming easier, was back with the ex again and we broke up 2 weeks and in that first week I slept with 3 new girls.

But what I've noticed is that when I go out now, girls actively hit on me, which is new. I haven't got any more physically attractive and confidence wise I don't carry myself any differently. But whether it's on the dance floor, at the bar or in the smoking area, girls approach me and things escalate very quickly from there. I'm now seeing one of those girls more regularly and have another one coming over tonight. I think it's safe to say that university is awesome.

Might get back into some light daygame but I also don't want to spend hours trawling the streets for pvssy.
 

Greasy Pig

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When I was just learning the "dark arts" about 10 years ago, I was at a club and there was a brunette HB8 with amazing double D jugs sitting alone by the dance floor.
I watched as practically every guy in the place approached and got shot down.
After a while a walked up and said very cheekily: "I know every guy in here has hit in you tonight but I'd just like to let you know that I'm definitely not trying to hit on you."
Then I turned and walked away laughing.
A minute later she came to the bar to order a drink right beside me. We started talking and an hour later I had those amazing boobs bouncing up and down in front of my face while she rode me back at her place.
That was one of my proudest moments of putting DJ theory (don't chase, be a challenge, be different from the chumps, be funny, confident etc) in to practise.
I couldn't believe it worked and fully converted me to So Suave.
 
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Greasy Pig said:
When I was just learning the "dark arts" about 10 years ago, I was at a club and there was a brunette HB8 with amazing double D jugs sitting alone by the dance floor.
I watched as practically every guy in the place approached and got shot down.
After a while a walked up and said very cheekily: "I know every guy in here has hit in you tonight but I'd just like to let you know that I'm definitely not trying to hit on you."
Then I turned and walked away laughing.
A minute later she came to the bar to order a drink right beside me. We started talking and an hour later I had those amazing boobs bouncing up and down in front of my face while she rode me back at her place.
That was one of my proudest moments of putting DJ theory (don't chase, be a challenge, be different from the chumps, be funny, confident etc) in to practise.
I couldn't believe it worked and fully converted me to So Suave.
AHA!

The biggest advice is to do the EXACT OPPOSITE of all the other guys. 60% of the time, it works every time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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