"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jumpers knee

Playastyle

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Anyone know how to cure it? There gotta be some bball players on this forum that had the same problem.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I had something like that dawg....rest is about the only thing that will do you any good. Take some painkillers in the meantime, but you gotta stay off it.
 

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Yeh, patella Tendonitis. Depends on how bad it is. Mine required knee surgery. I hurt it then played on it for another year and a half on and off. I rested but it never got better until I finally had to have surgery. Surgery will take about 3-6 months to recover and and 6-9 months to get good enough strength back in the leg to play again. Watch out for patellafemoral syndrome though if you have surgery. It's something you get when the quadriceps muscles are off balance (meaning one of the 3 quad muscles is way stronger than the other 2).
 
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