"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jump Out Of A Plane

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I have went sky diving a few times.

Take my word for it, Once you jump out of a plane(with a parachute of course!) then you really wont have a problem overcoming stupid little fears like approaching women.

Plus, the feeling of parachuting is inexpressible!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PalmerTheCharmer

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Yes! Excellent tip.

And here's another one along the same lines.

Ever been hurt real bad by a woman? Remember the pain? Then try this. Why not cut off your arm! Once you feel the agony of this no emotional pain will faze you and then no woman will ever be able to hurt you again!

:D
 

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Yes! Excellent tip.

And here's another one along the same lines.

Ever been hurt real bad by a woman? Remember the pain? Then try this. Why not cut off your arm! Once you feel the agony of this no emotional pain will faze you and then no woman will ever be able to hurt you again!

:D
how 'zen'....


:rolleyes:
 

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Good tip, my mates went sky-diving when we went to byron bay and they said when they got down they had a totally new outlook on life. I would love to do it, but i think someone would have to push me out to make me jump, aslong as it was tandum. lol:p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I did skydiving once. I got a heart attack when the $300 bill got sent to me.

Maybe when I'm richer I'll do it again.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I did skydiving once. I got a heart attack when the $300 bill got sent to me.

Maybe when I'm richer I'll do it again.
hahaha
 

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Yes! Excellent tip.

And here's another one along the same lines.

Ever been hurt real bad by a woman? Remember the pain? Then try this. Why not cut off your arm! Once you feel the agony of this no emotional pain will faze you and then no woman will ever be able to hurt you again!

:D
Yes!! lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I still prefer to fly airplanes than to jump out of them. :cool: The only time I will be jumping, or ejecting, out of one is if it is about to blow up or crash.
 

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Would definitely want to try skydiving, a little expensive though.

The only experience I have is Airborne school in Fort Benning.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Hmm.. I was in 'sarcastic *******' mode at the time. I'll stop now.

(I just thought the tip was a little... silly?!?)

:confused:
You're silly.
 

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Hmm.. I was in 'sarcastic *******' mode at the time. I'll stop now.

(I just thought the tip was a little... silly?!?)

:confused:
just a bit of irony - a classic Zen story is that of a famous master who cut off his own arm in order to receive instructions from his master.

The morale of this tip is actually not bad, but it might have helped if it had actually been drawn out with perhaps the story used to illustrate the point rather than just this.

Basically, I think it is a really good idea to learn to cultivate a habit of crossing your own borders, fears and limitations in all aspects of life, makes transplanting that to the dating game quite a natural thing.

Some may do it by skydiving, but hell whatever suits you I suppose.
 

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No I admit I do see the point of it, I just couldnt resist inserting that 'humorous' comment. DJ Mission I apologize, you have every reason to hate me. And I'm sure you probably do.

;)
 
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