"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jump Out Of A Plane

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I have went sky diving a few times.

Take my word for it, Once you jump out of a plane(with a parachute of course!) then you really wont have a problem overcoming stupid little fears like approaching women.

Plus, the feeling of parachuting is inexpressible!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PalmerTheCharmer

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Yes! Excellent tip.

And here's another one along the same lines.

Ever been hurt real bad by a woman? Remember the pain? Then try this. Why not cut off your arm! Once you feel the agony of this no emotional pain will faze you and then no woman will ever be able to hurt you again!

:D
 

B9

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Yes! Excellent tip.

And here's another one along the same lines.

Ever been hurt real bad by a woman? Remember the pain? Then try this. Why not cut off your arm! Once you feel the agony of this no emotional pain will faze you and then no woman will ever be able to hurt you again!

:D
how 'zen'....


:rolleyes:
 

jiza101

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Good tip, my mates went sky-diving when we went to byron bay and they said when they got down they had a totally new outlook on life. I would love to do it, but i think someone would have to push me out to make me jump, aslong as it was tandum. lol:p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I did skydiving once. I got a heart attack when the $300 bill got sent to me.

Maybe when I'm richer I'll do it again.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I did skydiving once. I got a heart attack when the $300 bill got sent to me.

Maybe when I'm richer I'll do it again.
hahaha
 

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Yes! Excellent tip.

And here's another one along the same lines.

Ever been hurt real bad by a woman? Remember the pain? Then try this. Why not cut off your arm! Once you feel the agony of this no emotional pain will faze you and then no woman will ever be able to hurt you again!

:D
Yes!! lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Marcopolo

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I still prefer to fly airplanes than to jump out of them. :cool: The only time I will be jumping, or ejecting, out of one is if it is about to blow up or crash.
 

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Would definitely want to try skydiving, a little expensive though.

The only experience I have is Airborne school in Fort Benning.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Hmm.. I was in 'sarcastic *******' mode at the time. I'll stop now.

(I just thought the tip was a little... silly?!?)

:confused:
You're silly.
 

B9

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Originally posted by PalmerTheCharmer
Hmm.. I was in 'sarcastic *******' mode at the time. I'll stop now.

(I just thought the tip was a little... silly?!?)

:confused:
just a bit of irony - a classic Zen story is that of a famous master who cut off his own arm in order to receive instructions from his master.

The morale of this tip is actually not bad, but it might have helped if it had actually been drawn out with perhaps the story used to illustrate the point rather than just this.

Basically, I think it is a really good idea to learn to cultivate a habit of crossing your own borders, fears and limitations in all aspects of life, makes transplanting that to the dating game quite a natural thing.

Some may do it by skydiving, but hell whatever suits you I suppose.
 

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No I admit I do see the point of it, I just couldnt resist inserting that 'humorous' comment. DJ Mission I apologize, you have every reason to hate me. And I'm sure you probably do.

;)
 
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