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Been dating a couple of girls and I've been running into scheduling problems. For some reason, I've had changes with both these girls for various legitimate reasons.

However, there are different priorities, I'm further along in the dating with one compared to the other. My dilemna is that I've got a date set up for tonight with the pottery girl however the hockey ditch girl had some shift changes at work and is now free and wants to get together tonight instead of tomorrow night.

Its guaranteed putang with the hockey ditch girl but I don't really want to bail on the pottery girl even though I'm likely to drop this plate soon.

You guys ever run into this, how to you best manage it?
 

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MacAvoy said:
Been dating a couple of girls and I've been running into scheduling problems. For some reason, I've had changes with both these girls for various legitimate reasons.

However, there are different priorities, I'm further along in the dating with one compared to the other. My dilemna is that I've got a date set up for tonight with the pottery girl however the hockey ditch girl had some shift changes at work and is now free and wants to get together tonight instead of tomorrow night.

Its guaranteed putang with the hockey ditch girl but I don't really want to bail on the pottery girl even though I'm likely to drop this plate soon.

You guys ever run into this, how to you best manage it?
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always, choose the one you want and make up an excuse

believe me it is far easier then it appears.

I have a brother and text "sorry cant make it, promised i would see my brother".

"lets sort something out for later".

Leave it at that.

Just be-careful of going on dates where your other girls maybe, dam the stress of that can really fuc* up your night.

having a few plates you will inevitably cross this threashold, welcome to the wonderful world of male manipulation, bout time men joined women on this path.

dont feel guilty one bit, most women are encouraged to do exactly what your doing, where has most men are not!
 
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juggling comes with the territory bro....

I personally would let Hockey marinade....in my opinion you would possibly appear weak by "jumping" when she suddenly comes available.

I would keep plans with the other chick and get up with hockey tomorrow....
 
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Its fun, its like a second job. I posted once about this same subject. I have about 5 or 6 right now I am managing. Good stuff
 
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