"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Juggling Multiple Girls at Once aka "Spinning Plates"

technicalgamer

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Hey guys,

As some of you guys may have started getting success with girls you might get to the situation where you are juggling multiple girls at once. Eventually this takes a toll on you especially when you have other commitments aka full time job, studying, social life etc.

Would you guys have any tips on how to manage this? And how would you ensure that your dating life doesn't start adversely affecting the other parts of your life?

Cheers.
technicalgamer
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Between_The_Lines

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Before dealing with any plates, locate the "give a fvck" chip in your mind, remove it, and proceed accordingly. Remember to reinsert before handling things like your job, school work, interests, family.
 

old married dude

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Yeah it's tiring, just keep them at a good distance and don't devote too much attention/energy to them and that helps...just show enough interest or whatever to keep them in play.
 
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