“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jean Valjean

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Guys you know rule 1 have more then one 'girl' friend to go out with. How do you handle the exclusivity demands that crop up. Well I've acquired two and just had both for sex on the same day. one in the morning and one in at night. reason I'm writing is I like both alot. One is okay being friends with benefits, the other is not. The one who is not is very edcuated professional going thru a divroce .. and want us to be exclusive (safe sex) or no more sex or friendship .

How to handle her ... don't want to lose her. both live in same town and go to same venues ... so now that I am sleeping with both I am having to avoid going dancing because they will notice each other. They already have and alot of questions are coming up.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dear Jean,
No question but that you pick the best of the two for the long term and unambiguously dump the other one....You have broken one of the Golden Rules of spinning Plates,keeping them thematically separated....if you don't follow my advice,you could lose both.
 

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You gotta keep em separated!
 

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I did on average 3-4 women at once during my MLTR experimental stage. One thing i learned was that if women suspect you are good with women and you are "gaming" them - they will ALWAYS ask if you are seeing other women... there's no time for games here; one of the few times i endorse a direct answer:

"YES I AM"

she might follow with, "are you sleeping with them?" to which you should also answer with the truth...

Any more details wanted after that should be meant with matter factly "that's none of your business". if she flips out to answers like that - then you're already you've already been too supplicant.

You have set the frame that you see and sleep with other women. And you have to do it EARLY. She has to make a decision on if to accept it or not. And 90% of the time - they will (even if they say they won't and throw fits).

Make no mistake about it though - in the back of their mind - the challenge has become betaizing you into a relationship with them. Chip... chip... chip... away at your alphaness until they can seduce/convince with their pvssy that you should be with them exclusively.

One of the best ways to combat this is to LIMIT your contact with them. 1-2 days a week max! If you're spending too much time with them - they'll have no choice biologically but to "try" to lock you down. And you will begin to entertain the thought as well.

This girl who is "ok" with being FBs - will not be ok with it the more you hang out with her.

For example: Do you really expect a girl with whom you've spent 5 out of 7 days with to be "ok" when you tell her you can't hang out with her because you have plans with another woman??? She may be able to bite her tongue and not say anything if you have a strong enough frame - but the more things like this are done - the more her pull on you will grow until one of you gives in or gives up.

This "professional" woman is already doing this. Most likely because the way you are treating her is not congruent with the way one should treat a FB. You most likely are signaling inside of her (with your actions) the same feelings she feels towards a guy who is trying to court her.

staying the night, snuggling, lovey dovey talk, holding hands, too much passion, going out to dinners, and generally acting as if you are in the early stages of a relationship are the most likely culprits whenever issues like this arise.
 

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Dear Jean,
I think merit has raised a very interesting point,one I have laboured many times....Many years ago I worked pushing Beef Roads through remote areas in our Far West.....To cut a long story short,an old Boundary Rider on the Dingo Fence had been found dead,poor old Bvgger had tied a tourniquet of wire round his neck and just kept twisting it tighter....we all trooped out of the Pub and looked at the remains in the back of the coppers Land Rover...."Why did he do it that way?" I asked the gnarled old Copper","well
there's no way of going back if you change your mind, is there?"he replied,and that's what happens in relationships....If you want to spin plates keep a minimum three nights a week for them.
 

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If you don't want to be exclusive, don't be exclusive. Tell your women that. If they can't handle that, then fugg 'em.

Let's get the full story...why is the girl who's NOT OK with you seeing other women getting a divorce in the first place?

How long have you been seeing her? You'd think she would've learned her lesson by now about rushing into relationships.
 

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squirrels said:
If you don't want to be exclusive, don't be exclusive. Tell your women that. If they can't handle that, then fugg 'em.

Let's get the full story...why is the girl who's NOT OK with you seeing other women getting a divorce in the first place?

How long have you been seeing her? You'd think she would've learned her lesson by now about rushing into relationships.
2 reasons
1. she is an attractive, slim but curvy college professor with tenure and hi self esteem, and does not want to be one of my many
2. main reason - we are having sex and she is into safe sex and will not have sex with someone who has multiple partners - too risky hiv

I have not asked about her marriage - think she found out husband was having affairs
 
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