"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Judging my progress.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What 4 reasons do you think attribute to that?
 

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Well at least one.

Sometimes my game for periods can be terrible. Other times great, so measuring my progress is hard. At least that, is one of the reasons.
 

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crossboss said:
Sometimes my game for periods can be terrible. Other times great, so measuring my progress is hard. At least that, is one of the reasons.
Then look at the results.

The guys in our local lair tally up how many new women they've fvcked each month, 5 last month, 7 this month etc...

That way, you'll get a clearer indication on your progress, and can have a target for the following week/month/whatever.

Of course you don't have to do it this way, a lot of the guys in our local lair also think it's a stupid idea, but I think it's great.

It doesn't sh!t around with the whole "I didn't get laid, but I made deep rapport with more women, I am still improving" bs, cause that's blurry, results is what matters.

Of course having said that, don't think about the outcome too much when you game, the aim is to have fun.
 
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