Judging Intrest Level

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I have always had trouble judging the intrest levels of women. They are a confusing bunch. Recently I have asked this girl out. We met at a party. I was drunk in a hot tub and I talked with her and her sister for a while. They were so impressed by me that they invited me to a party at their house a few weeks later. There I flirted with this women, and we both got drunk and dirty danced together. I called her about four days later to see if she wanted to get together over the weekend. She said she was going to be busy part of the weekend and out of town the rest of it. I asked her if she would be free during the week, and she said she might. I asked her if she wanted me to call her and she said yes.

After the call I felt that her intrest level was moderate to high, but as I type this I feel that I was wrong and that it was actually low. I felt that she was being positive about doing something, though she didn't say "YES Definitely". When you are asking a girl out, who you met only once and only for a short time, do you want that definite yes?

What advice would this board give me to help me judge intrest leves in a women I just met.

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As Dr. House would say "Everybody lies" so judge her interest levels on her actions. Let's face it, a large part of what we've learned on this site is about the body language. Assuming you've successfuly got her on a date watch for IOI's as much as u can. Lean back and take your time with her. If you're not sure about the IOI, ask her by masking it with C+F.

For instance. I went to a bar thursday night here in Melbourne and this gorgeous HB8 wanted me to read her tarot (although I don't know how to read tarot, the gods of PUA were with me). Her eye contact for one was a definte IOI. She was leaning in closer to me and really really listening to what I had to say. Anyway, the time I wasn't sure if it was an IOI was when she was touching my arm and playfully brushing my shoulder while she was laughing. I ask her "Do you just like touching my Herculean biceps? Or is this how the French say 'you are so cool'?" (Yes she was French) and replied laughingly "Yes I do think you're cool! You really are!". Unconvinced, I used a kiss-close or a kiss-test to get further reassurance. Further in the evening she said playfully: "Do you live around the city?" while laughing to her friend. I smiled, knowing her body language and her humor already, I could tell this was the wild card I'd been waiting for.

So in a nutshell use the C+F attitude to bring down the shield. If you can't read the body language and the IOI's she's giving u, use ur C+F routine to mask the question.

Hope this helps. I've been using more of the Mystery technique, but I could have missed a few things. So other DJ's and PUA's out there, correct me if i'm wrong. But as I say: Use the techniques that suit you best. There is no ONE solid school of thought.

All the best.

 

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Well if you just met them - if they answer your call or go out with you then there is interest.

One the first date you kiss them - there should be no confusion as to their interest level.

The only time there is confusion on interest level is if *you* don't make an effort.