Judge her ACTIONS not her WORDS, even words are ''i never liked you, who said that?''

[pikachu69]

During a heated debate between the girl I am NC'ing right now about her behaviour she said to me 'I never liked you, I was never interested and who told you I was interested in you?'

I went out with this girl for 1 month and we went out several times, each date it seemed as if she was interested in some way. She'd be receptive to kino once she had a drink. On our last date before things went messy I didn't initiate kino, but she did, rubbing my leg being affectionate, everything I wanted her to do which previous dates she didn't.

Is her saying the above just because she was angry/annoyed at the time rather than she actually meant it?

I'm at odds knowing whether she genuinely liked me or was just playing with me. She faked the interest like a pro. Even let me attempt to undo her brastrap in the corner of the bar. She let me be sexual, she 'accidently' rubbed her hand over my jeans to feel my c0ck to see if I was hard for her. Not really an IOI I think but more a validating thing for her I guess.

 

[DonGorgon]

Very true cause most women have a constant inner struggle between the logical requirements of interactions with men and their to random emotional nature... The will speak what the think they should say and do what they really feel.. Their actions are more truthful than their words but both tend to be at least 30% false at all times cause their reality is based on ficticious emotional pseudo logic..

 

[Exhumed]

Fo real...girls love to play hard to get...or "**** tests" as some would put it...however they also like to deny they ever had any attraction to you or flirted with you ever when they drop you. Clearly there was attraction, I think more info is needed to determine if she still likes you...

But she was angry/annoyed about something and you were accusing her of being attracted to you? Why? That paints a picture more like "You're not interested in me? Yes you are, why were you flirting with me?" rather than "Come on I know you want me, oh yes you do, you're not fooling meeee"

 

[pikachu_69]

I was annoyed with her for flaking, but I realise now after reading a thread on here that it was counterproductive and I should have just NC'd her from there on and let her dwell/figure out what she did wrong. NC seems like sucha good tactic for dealing with a lot of things provided you're patient enough to walk away for a little while which I'm not.

It might be too far gone but I notice jealousy from her cos she's seen me with a new hot HB and I've been acting indifferent. I don't know how long it takes for NC to work in my case BUT it might be different because we're both on campus so I'll bump into her at least twice a week, if i'm by myself it doesn't speed up the process as much, but I'm starting to think that AT THE TIME of her saying what she said it was true, she didn't like me or was interested me HOWEVER prior to that when things were good, she WAS but when I drew attention to this she acted embarassed and told me to forget about that day! LOL