Journal of Thegambino

[TheGambino]

Adding up a no gamble challenge of 6 months starting today. Having bad luck lately on poker and lost 1000 euros in 2 months. I'm very unlucky in the game this period and I need to get back on track financially. Quitting, done no more. Taking too much from me.

 

[TheGambino]

Alright, Ive had some good weeks.

Got 3 fresh new plates in the rotation and one is up for a date.

I feel more confident coz all three are more invested than me and actually text me and send me random stuff. One at my traineeship constantly chats me up and we went on a lunch once together. Couldn't go for the kiss close since we were at work but I kino'd her heavily which she liked.

Another plate also chats me up true facebook, also a co worker, she has a bf though. I asked for her number in facebook and she gave it, going to hit her up soon.

Next plate is a 18 year old chick who's in animals. She laughed to me in the bus and number closed her. We text everyday, got her interest level up true text, im sure. Keeping it light and fun and got to some sexual convo, met her in the bus and she kino's me and all IoI's. She even texted me this afternoon, told her that I was going to go look for a pup Stafford, maybe taking a dogg.

She asked me if she could join, I declined coz I had to pick her up and I was in a hurry.

Asked her for drinks tommorow but she answered a bit vague maybe coz I declined her offer.

She initiates all texts and at the bus stop in the morning shes over me.

Going to shoot her a text tommorow for the date. No flake is a lay rapport.

Some other plates who were on the backburner text me, one suggested a date next week. She flaked on me before know shes crawling back so that's good.

What Ive learned is make a connection with the girls. Show genuine interesse in them. Flirt and give compliments, don't be a jerk. You can tease but don't overdo it. Connect, and be sexual.

 

[TheGambino]

Tommorow big day, introducement weekend to get to know 80 other students who are going to do the same minor (part of my study) for 6 months. Were going to do some management assignments at day and partying at night. Great way to meet new women! Excited for that.

Also im moving to a student city saturday for this minor. Going to live with my mom and her new husband 90miles away from where I lived basically my whole life.

Sticking to:

-No gambling
-Eating clean
-5 days per week training
-Getting my financial situation together
-Approaching all girls I like

Signatured this for 29-01-2014 21:03

Let's do it.

 

[TheGambino]

Sup guyz, was very busy lately so didn't have much time to be active on Sosuave!

anyway things are going well all coz of the gym. It's a big confidence boost, also dressing well is so important for me. I feel super confident if I'm dressed tight and approaching women and inner game.

So its all good.

Today I approached a 10/10. Straight blonde Swedish model looking type.

I drunk a bit and was waiting for a plate to drive her home and try to escalate in my car but she was late.

I approached that model and told her '' hey who you waiting for in your own?'' She told me ''my dad, going home Im sleepy lol'' I told her without thinking... ''waiting for my girlfriend but shes late so imma chill with you, you little lucky girl'' she responded well and started to ask me questions. We go back and forth, after 5mins I stared to make some sexual comments (like I give massages if you deserve it blabla). She responded well so I pulled the trigger.

''Lets wait in my car for your dad and my gf to show up''. She said nahh im good... I build more comfort with her afterwards, talking about games she likes to play soccer games(FIFA) and that ill beat her and more stuff that made her laugh... after that she seemed to open up more and she said ''lets go to your car its freezing and my dad is late too but hold on you aint going to rape or kill me are you?'' lol I said cmonn whod you think i am ?

In my car we talked more drove around a bit and asked her to kiss my cheek, made some pictures had fun and kissed her on her lips, quickly to tease. She didnt respond to real kissing. (Damn shes so hot, prolly hottest girl ever that I isolated in my car)

After that we talked about sex, just what she liked (shes bisexual omygawdddd, trio bro's ) and we kept talking about sex and fantasies and pool dancing. an hour passed and she said I have to go back my father is coming for me. told her this coz I couldnt go for a kiss since she didnt lean towards me or so. '' give me a kiss baby, then I know if your the real deal like you claim'' she said nooo, just add me on facebook we could hang out !

Asked for her number, she didnt have her phone on her (thats true coz its carnaval here in holland she only had her dress on no pockets) but she said I forgot my number I got a new one recently (RED FLAG) but she did chill with me in my car and showed interest signs....
anyway she kept asking me my name and saying add me on facebook do it now dont forget so I did..

Got some kisses on my cheeck and 1 on her lips from a girl that's a straight 10 that can be on the cover of victoria's secret so im happy anyway, I did try to escalate so

anyway lets hope she accepts my request and I could try to go from the messages... right bro's..

number closed 3 girls and kiss closed 1, not bad!

 

[TheGambino]

Alright guys, I feel confident, well and could approach any girl anywhere.

Going to the gym in a bit, good workout, take a shower and head for the mall for solo game.

Going to cold approach women and my target is at least 10 phone numbers for dates.

Ill let you guys know in details how everything goes, convo's, my opener and stuff like that.

Tonight the field rapport. Be honest bout my style bros

 

[TheGambino]

It's not going so well lately, I was invited for 2 parties with lots of girls friday and saturday, guess what coz I gained some fat and not feeling so good I decided to stay home, I never ever did that proof that something is not right.

I went back to smoking cigarettes a couple of months ago after quitting for 2years and smoked waterpipe with fruit tobacco also on vacation in Morocco. At that time I had a bodyfat % of 14 and went to the gym 5 times a week. I ate clean, healthy and had a fb and some plates going on.

A month ago I decided to quit smoking due some health issues like coughing a lot and stuff. I quit smoking and waterpipe for good exactley 30 days ago. I gained 3-4 kilo of fat and im lacking motivation to go to the gym. Playing video games on my ps3 and working 3 times a week, it's also bad that Im not going to graduate for my minor so I have to chose a new minor at school, I probably wasted 6 months of my life..

From this day on it has to change. I was dedicated, school was going well, I had good plates going on, was over confident, low body % and eating clean and going to the gym almost every day.

The only positive thing now is that I quit smoking, thats it, I got a long distant plate who still calls me on regular base and another one who is up for a date, that's it.

The changes that I'm going to make from today 22-6-2014.
Eating clean and healthy again, every 2 hours protein low carbs on restdays and going to the gym at least 5 times a week.
Also study for my finals this week and still try to graduate for my minor even the though low chances.
Working a lot, make money, going to Morocco in August, I have to look and feel well so I can think clearly to start a business over there that's my dream. Also some long distant plates are over there, and lots lots lots of girls are out there, easy to lay if you got game and looks matter a lot. Ill be hitting the gym everyday until august!

So let's do it, get back to less then 14% bodyfat(im at 18-19% now), feel good again and approach the ladies like I used to do. In a couple of weeks going to call one of my remaining plates for a date and rock the night.

+ I dont have to let the girls that reject me when I ask em out affect my mood. Rejection is part of the game, it should have zero affection on your confidence, I was at that point but lately it affected me like Im back at level 1 starting to learn the game. I know every rule and lived by it, can't fall back, I'm a Don Juan now, let's get back on track, summer is here!