“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Journal of Thegambino

TheGambino

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Yoo guys, I study the DJ way of approaching for over 6 months know and things changed a lot.

For the ones who dont know me, I'm a 22 year old student slept with over 20 different girls in my life since 16 and most of them in Morocco(my roots, mother), I had one serious relationship with a beautiful girl that I put on a pedestal for over a year. She gave me a hard time, believe that.. I live in Holland and just moved to a big town for student trainee workplacement in a commercial company. I like to fitness, play poker (i love the rush, adrenaline) im very social and live with my mother and her new husband (yes soon on my own).

Now its time to get a journal going for you guys to learn from my mistakes and to pick up what could work because I do crazy as$ sh1t when it comes to approaching and 'gaming'.

I hope you guys digg it, I'm going to post some pics and diagolues too when it comes too picking up and seduction.

I learned my lesson from a HB9 I dated and ran over me, after those months of pain I found out about this forum and everything turn around for me.

I promise to you guys and myself I WILL approach every single girl I find attractive and phone close even kiss at clubs or party's. And I promise that I forget all the girls I was AFC with and the ones that have low interest. My mood will never go up and down with the way a girl acts towards me, from this hour on. I will put off my ego and get immune to rejection. First I was very afraid of rejection that's why my game was lacking, I will use Pook's legendary anti dump machine, low interest is next from know on, even if a HB10 model latina bad a$$ b1tch is giving me mixed signals, im gone.

Every feedback, question, advice, tip, critic from you guys is welcome! We are in this together and the main goal is getting laid more without headaches.
 
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At the moment I got one f*ck buddy a HB6, I could sweet talk her and call her to come over, but I want to step my game up so I try to ignore her and step up a notch.

And three plates I met the last 2 weeks and one for over 2 months, one HB8 that shows low interest the last days and giving a lot of mixed signals so I'm going to move on from her. Another one I met in the gym, giving me great signs in the gym but backing off a bit on texts, going to ask her out this weekend. Another plate is a cute HB7 I met during the summer we made out twice but she's backing off a bit I think shes in contact with her crazy ex again who was in jail, I don't feel like asking her out because her ex boyfriend is a Turkish guy that abused her, shes drama and I don't want to get caught up in a fight over a girl. That happened to me twice earlier and in both cases the girl lost respect for me and started to manipulate me because I gave her too much value and lowered my own, I was the jealous type.
 

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Alright guys I can add a successfull approach and convo to my rapport.

I was doin some cardio when this hb8 cute girl came in and went jogging in front of me. I tried to eye contact her but she did her thing and ran.
I quit my cardio and went lifting. When I was training I made eye contact with her I laughed she looked at me without emotion (never had that before) for several seconds, I kept looking at her with a smile until she turned her face off.
10mins later I cold approached her with this line: heyy do you go out here in this area? her: Yes sometimes why? me: Ive spoken to u (in this partic club) once, we had a fun convo that time. her: oohh i dont remember you. so i started a 3-4min convo (i only saw her never approached) building some kino and suggested to do some dead lifts and squats together she agreed. Problem her parents were there and her brother, next to us when we were squatting. I convo'd her brother and her and she showed interest by asking me stuff. We went squatting together and she stayed around me. Problem: her mom is a teacher at my old school and I had a lot of beef back then, smoking weed and stuff so she remembered me (old days lol) she was looking at her daughter the whole time and stayed around us. 20mins later her family went to the shower and she stayed around and said byee i g2g I made clear that i wanted to her number and she said ok haha immediatley so I number closed!

I got stuck with some oneitis from this abused chick some of u might know so this is great to forget her.

Biggest challenge for me: Don't grow oneitis too fast.

So I think of texting her tonight. We had a great vibe so I think its ok
 

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Plate Update and review.

I dropped my favourite plate.
Something resisted her to meet up with me, in the beginning she was willing to see me but I came over strong, showed sexual motives and touched her a lot when I saw her, not sure if she was comfortable with that, big anti slut defense and she’s very religious. We kissed once when I was talking to her at the bus station.
She showed all good signals last weeks but didn’t want to meet up. We called a lot since I tried to build rapport, and we were vibing, romance talking and she opened up a lot. Yet again it even scared her off more to meet up since we all got in the sexual talk on the phone and she was talking about ‘us’ she let herself go on the phone and I’m guessing she felt embarrassed the next day. Anyway I posted a lot about her, you guys and my gut tell me to ‘next’, this ain’t going nowhere so I did.

Positive facts: She liked the romantic/sexual talk and laughed all the time when we were talking, great vibe on the phone, build enough rapport. She downloaded the application whatsapp and viber when I asked her to do so, she was checking up on it all day for the last month, she deleted it 4 days ago after our last convo for some reason. I was overly confident with this girl, approached went great, convo’s went great. She also was jealous, she asked what I was doing if I was seeing other girls and blabla. I brung up my ex sometimes or other girls to show her girls come easily it’s no big deal.

Negative facts: (big red flag) Doesn’t want to meet up anymore, comes up with excuses like I have religious beliefs and you don’t think about it like I do, or I can’t leave my house and stuff like I don’t want to be the rebellious outgoing chick I got life motives and I have to stick to em… She tests me all the time. She told me she was abused, there’s a big chance she lied about it, my friend told me who knows her family.

Mistakes to learn from: Called for several hours with her, I enjoyed her company on the phone/skype. Yet it won’t do you any good even if the convo’s are super entertaining and vibing. Sent a funny photo shopped pictures of myself my nephew made coz they fitted our convo, it entertained her but it didn’t do my ‘potential lover’ view any good I think. I also sent her a picture of me showing off my biceps (lol yes I know..) but she asked questions about how I keep my body in shape.
I kept chasing, asked her out like 10 times in 3-4months time. I’m not an entertainer but a lover, I was focusing too much on making her laugh.
Last time she flaked I replied with ‘OK’ and no contacted for 2weeks. She hated that, she told me later, omg what’s ok, she was even mad coz I didn’t try to reschedule or call her, so indifference got me the reaction I wanted.

Main Objective: Forgetting her, nexting her. I see her a lot at the bus station in the mornings, I want to remain indifferent and don’t care about her totally, I’m in the beginning of that process.

Mission: Getting her to feel the loss and meet up with boring guys and feel like wow I actually lost a great guy.

My second plate is a cute 19years old HB8. I cold approached in the gym. Build some rapport, she was responding great. I gamed her while her whole family was watching, her mom, brother and dad were around and I kept talking to her. Her brother was giving her looks like ‘’what are your doin?’’ and she looked at him like mind your own business. I liked that. She was following me around the gym after our little convo. Asked her some questions and build rapport. After a while she went to do some cardio, she came back to me and told me I have to go, I number closed, she gave me a big smile and left.

Three hours later I sent a text to build a little bit more rapport and testing her out before asking her to meet up. She replied within a minute and we were texting back and forth for an hour. I said: Nice undercover ‘number close’ (in another way duh) coz I got her number without her parents noticing. She told me I don’t mind about it, even if they saw it I don’t care.
She was studying and bored, I told her: You think that’s worse? Well I can’t sleep coz my new neighbors are having cex, yes im serious lol, they were almost screaming, so I went downstairs to sleep, I texted her that coz it fitted our convo, she thought that was hilarious. I told her go back studying ill contact you later.
Next day I texted her in the evening: ‘Hey let’s do something fun this weekend what days are good for you? she replied an hour later: ‘hey its my moms birthday Monday, so I can’t this weekend we have plans, I’m sory ’.
Since I had several plates running that time and a date setten up for Friday I didn’t mind I replied with ‘Ok gratz and have fun!’ and ripped her number since she didn’t reschedule.
Positive: Good signs in the gym following me around and asking me questions, insta replies on texts first evening.

Negative: She said no to my date request. Her mom is my old teacher, I had a lot of beef those days at school and my reputation wasn’t good at school(badboy image, smoking weed and having beef with others with my buds). She knows me well and was giving her daughters looks like ‘don’t talk to him’. Her sister also knows me she was with me in class for 2years. We hung around at school and were sort of friends doing projects together. I found out days later my plate is her little sister.

A week later I saw her at the gym with her family again, I said hey to her when I passed her and went to do my fitness routine. She looked at me twice, smiling I smiled back but didn’t approach. A couple of days later I saw her again, she bend over when she was training her abbs with her mom she was looking at my direction for several minutes, not sure what she wants. Her mom was watching her the whole time closely.
Problem: I ripped her number so I can’t contact her anymore.. she didn’t text me though.
Main objective: Approach her again In the gym when I see her and plan a date with her asap.
Mission: Posting a lay rapport about her soon.

Third plate:
Boring HB7 plate I know for months, shes always in for a date, can f*ck her easily no problem. Dated her last week, we were kissing In the car for an hour and she got drunk, afterwards I took her home didn’t even feel like laying. I think she f*cks around other guys too but im not sure. Anyway she has the outgoing chick reputation. She’s boring coz it’s no challenge and I don’t feel attracted to her that much… We don’t vibe, only good cex, that’s what counts for her anyways..

Mission: Getting new plates so I won’t need her anymore for a nighter.
I don’t care about her, that’s probably the reason that she keeps contacting me, the more I ignore her the more she chases me.

Need to get myself back on track in the gym. Lately ive been drinking a lot in the weekends, playing on my playstation 3 with my buds and eating bad food. My bodyfat went from 16% to 22% in 4 months and my muscle dropped from 43% to 40%. I’m going to the gym 4 times a week and eat clean again from today on.

11-11-2013
BF%: 22,5
Muscle%:40,3
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Some updates for my journal, Field rapport:

Had some approaches lately.

Last saturday I approached this hb9 Brazilian girl, she was smoking hot, phat ass and a cute face. I cold approached her with the line: Hey I had to ask you: Whats your ethinicity (origins)?

She didn´t give me attention and kept talking to her friends. After a couple of seconds she looks at me and says: Why your asking didn´t replie but gave her a c!cky smile. She laughed and said Brazilian so I started the convo from there, asking her name, if shes ever been there and if she could guess what my origin is. (Im half Moroccan) Told her I´ll give her a surprise if she could guess it good. She was wrong 2 times and I said somewhere in the north of Africa and she named a country in central Africa. I called her out on it, made fun of her coz her topography was worse. She responded well and kept guessing. I just told her and said things like. I find you a dancer and gave her stupid little nick names.

Then asked her some more rapport building questions and she responded , when she asked me stuff I kept vague and turned the questions back to her. In the end I pulled the trigger and tried to number close. She gave me the well known `I have a bf...´ Told her I got a gf, your thinking to far forward I just want to have a fun chit chat with you and if things aren´t working out with your bf give me a call sometime in the future.

She laughed, I changed the subject and told her I got a perfect nickname for such a cute girl and she was all over me wanting to know what it is. I told her if you give me a call I´ll tell you... !

Her phone battery was dead she showed me and her friend got my number in her phone. I told her kiss my cheek and I´ll tell your nickname she did it, I said wasn´t enough if you call me I´ll tell you and I turned around and went left without looking back.

Today (4/5 days later she called me with a witheld phone number) We have a fun small chit chat and I found out she had me on speaker with her friends around her in the beginning then she told me she went to her room. She asks me some questions about what I´m doing and stuff. I gave her some compliments about her eyes and smile and kept the convo light and fun and she asks for the nickname again. I told her we should go for a drink told her I´ll give her a call but I forgot I didn´t have her number since she called witheld lmao.

I just told her after 10mins got to run Ill call or text you for some drinks she said ok we should go ! and I hung up. (forgot that I didnt have her number, thought she called witheld)

I doubt if she will ever call, but she showed interest, shes hot as F_ck and i showed max confidence at the approach and on the phone.

Next approach was today in the gym went for a small talk with a hb9. She´s great lookin, I had to catch my balls together to approach but I did the same asking for her origins since she didnt look Dutch and she wasn´t she was Indonesian. I did a small fun chit chat asking stuff then told her I had to run. She´s in the gym more often so I could number close in the future anyways.

I´m reloading my plates since I´m bored of 1 girl, shes too easy and a 6... and another plate cancelled our date last minute last saturday. Tried to call her for a convo but she didn´t pick up the phone since I tried to be c(cky funny on the phone which I won´t try again, I feel bored texting lame random stuff so I tried to turn it up, she didnt respond well.

Anyways im keeping up my plate spinning to the max, every girl I like I just coald approach with no fear, couldn´t dream of that 2/3 years ago...

05-12-2013
BF%: 20,8
Muscle%:41,2
 

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bradd80 said:
very nice Gambino, good to see you're working hard!
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Ive read your guide multiple times and I think it's one of the best and most valuable stuff on Sosuave. You're positiveness and ability to make the best out of dealing with women is great. You also are very interested in the rookies who are new here and deal with oneitis.

You just deserve the credits, lot of bullsh1t threads full of biterness but you make the best out of it it's inspiring from A to Z bro, thanks.
 

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will be reading this too. i live in holland too. which city are you from bro?
 

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I'm not going in details coz of the private stuff I post on here regarding my situations with women. Thnks fo your interest tho, I'll be doing my best in the field, approaching every girl I like and write rapports nd post em in my journal. If theres anything on your mind like questions, critic or something you like reply
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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pm a mod. you can't delete your own posts. what you probably can do if no mod is willing to delete your post is compile all ur posts in a new thread and delete this one.
 

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also although i think its lame youre not willing to tell where youre from i'll ask you no further. lets just hope we dont ruin each other unbeknownest to us haha
 

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i'm from London, England.

Damn. Now my cover is blown...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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FIELD RAPPORT.

Today was a good day

Alright went out with a budd of mine for some drinks in a cafe first.

Bad music, nothing special, some kind of lame party of students. Everywhere drunk ugly girls except for one nice HB8 round ass cute face foreign girl, couldnt guess from what country. Tried to make eye contact and smiled, she noticed me but ignored me. Yet I saw her looking in my direction frequently when I ignored her ass.

After a while I passed her and blowed her hair a bit and touched her waist and ordered a drink. Didn't pay attention to her reaction.

After 15mins she passes me and I whisper ''Hey what's your etnicity'' She replies: Spanish! all excited. Asked her what her name is, what the party is all about and where she lives. She replies and asks for my etnicity. I made her guess (I always do) She guessed all wrong and I said. Cmon Africa! She said Brasil? Called her out for bein so stupid and then complimented her with it's ok coz your so cute. After that I said I'm learning Spanish (lie but i would in future..) She replied enthousiastic and said you should learn me coz I can't speak it myself. Told her sure and pulled the trigger: ''Why don't you give me your number we should go for a drink sometime'' She looked slightly doubtfull but yet pulled her phone out and searched for her own number and showed it to me so I could save it in my phone.

She then showed it to me but I decided to play a game. I commanded her in a bold way give me your phone. She said nooo it got stolen earlier im sory. I said it again ''Give me your phone'' She gave in and I wrote her number down in my phone. Then I pointed my finger to my cheek to let her kiss it. Made it clear that she wouldnt get her phone if she didnt She kissed my cheek and i pulled the old fashion trick and kissed her mouth quickly. She called me out for a prick with a playful smile and stayed around for a minute laughing kino'ing a bit and she left to her friends. After that I kinda ignored her and chatted up other girls.

That old fashion trick, lets call it bymyname the gambino coz I always pull it off, what do you guys think of it coz I do it almost every numberclose in nightgame.

After 15mins a blonde HB6 I know from my village that I see often in the bus passes me. Shes interested, I know coz she always stands next to me in the bus and once helped in me when I had beef with some drunk idiot a couple of months ago.

She kino'ed me heavily and wanted attention. I thanked her for that day again and said it was very nice of her to help me. Then I kino'ed her and made a small chit chat, then moved on. After 30mins of dancing drinking and having fun I left the cafe. The blonde HB6 was outside and I chatted her up again. She said Ill go with you to the club if you lift me to the door. I lifted her, and the Spanish girl saw the it all, she was outside too. (not sure if that's good...)

Anyway when I reached the door of the club I put her down and did the gambino again pointed to my cheek coz I lifted her all the way and turned my face for a kiss. Again a girl calls me out for prick and I number closed her and left.

Then the most interested girl of the night, and the cutest coz she was so excited.

She passed me in the club after I spent some time chatting up some old friends and talking to some girls I know. I whispered again my opener to foreign girls ''hey whats your etnicity'' (it works guys they love to talk about being half blood or having a mother/father from another country, gives them validation in some way, they just like it I noticed)

She stopps 2 meters from me laughing to me and I pulled my finger to like come here girl. She did the same and commanded me to come to her if I wanted to speak. I thought lets not blow it and just approached her. She replies Im Indonesian. I immediatley pulled my arm around her shoulder and went for the convo. Asked for her name, what she liked to do and if she could guess my etnicity. I said If you can guess it in one time you'll win a surprise.

She was all excited loving the convo and said it right immediatley MOROCCAN!

I gave her a high five and said you've won the first prize. Her eyes got big and she said what is it? I said a date with me !

She loved it and I pulled out my phone. While saving her number she kissed my cheek herself. I followed her when she left with her friend and pointed to my cheek myself, she kissed and I pulled thegambino again and kissed her mouth. She laughed and looked at me like woww you dare, she laughed and left.

Some guys I know saw the whole successfull act so I had a big adrenaline rush there, I loved it haha

After that I chatted up another hb7 chinese girl, she gave me the I got a bf and didnt want to hook up. I just kino'ed her and teased her. She responded well but didn't want to hook up, not interested. I decided to act super c*cky since she wasn't interested and I had nothing to loose. Said I dated almost every etnicity girl but never a chinese, you should be honoured to be the first one! She looked at me like jeez how c*cky can you be but yet replied amused like no sory, probably not gonna happen lmao, I just stayed around for a bit and left.

I chatted up some girls I know and guys I know from school.

Then I noticed this hb9 big round ass girl. She was all drunk and dressed in the 1950's style with the red purse and red high heels. Loved it.

Tried to make eye contact and smile, she noticed me and gave me eye contact for longer but some nerd was dancing with her. I just sit down bar stool in front of her and looked at her. After a while I just grabbed her hand and pulled her down to me and said in a c*cky funny way: '''Damn girl how the hell did you get that dress on with all that ass'' She replied: It's not a dress and pulled out her jacket to show me what she was wearing.

I kino'ed her touched her ass and pushed her to me and made some convo. Asked for her name and gave her a compliment. I like your style.

She had the red lipstick on, all that 1950's style. You watched 'the great gatsby' well a girl like that. I wanted to take her home badly!

Anyway I pulled the trigger and said ''Let's do something fun, ill take you out on a night you wont forget, one for the books'' She said okay! and I number closed her. After that she went back to her friends.

I walked around for a bit with my buddy watching him talking to some girls and drinking some more vodkas. I went back to my 1950s girl and watched her dancing all slutty with more guys. (she was the hottest girl of the club you would all agree)

I pulled her to me again and danced with her for a minute. Grabbing her ass turning her around and kino'ing heavily. We eye contacted for a long time and then she playfully pushes me away and went back to her friends. From that point I just ignored her and left.

Nothing more special happened that night except for 1 or 2 girls that blowed me off, weren't interested and a fat girl all kino'ing me but she was daaang ugly.

Anyway broskis all comments, advice, tips, suggestions or things you like replie all welcome !!, great night, number closed 5 girls, thegambino kissed closed 4 of em and had hell a fun, I prolly just text all of em in 2 days and the Indonesian girl deserves a call for the big interest and the kiss on my cheek. Shes cute though.

Number closing doesn't mean sh1t, if she actually shows up for the date, then you got a plate so I hope for the best coz it happened to me earlier that I get all interest signs, even a kiss close and then she flakes or doesn't even replie to my text! All these girls from above, I checked them all on their whatsapp accounts, they all gave me the right number, I can see the photo she got so that's ok.

We'll see, I just loved the night, peace !
 
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I approached 5 girls this night, danced with 1 then just left, wasn't interested. Chatted up a hb7 Dominican light skinned girl in a nice dress with a big butt. Damn she blew me away, she was replieying to me and everything but I didn't feel that vibe to go for a kiss or number close so I just wished her a good night and left. Hell I was being c*cky to the max since I wasn't closing anyway. I even pulled her to me to look at her ass lol she said: 'Stop that or I'll hit you with a big smile' I love that attitude haha

Can add 2 succesfull number closes from yesterday.

Saw this cute hb6 girl in a club yesterday night. She was looking bored while everyone was partying.

I approached her 30mins later outside, she was waiting.

I just opened with 'hey I recotnized you earlier, you looked so bored inside what's up?'

HB: Ye actually I was with a playful smile 'I don't like the people here
Me: So what people do you like?
HB: Farmers
Me: Lol, r you serious.. you live on a farm?
HB: Yup
Me: I like that! I love to have a hot adventure with a cute lady like you in a tractor
HB: Laughing, I have a tractor (looking at me like that's my fantasy)
Me: So you like animals?
HB: Yes blablablala about all her animals
HB: and you?
Me: Ye me too I take walks with my buddy's doberman every sunday I love it balbalbla and some chit chat.

Me: We should continue this convo in a bar sometime
HB: Yes definetley where?
Me: Here (name city) or where you live it's all good give me your number
HB: Sure! hands over number

Point my finger to my cheek she kisses and I turn my face quickly and kiss her mouth, like always she pushes me away playfully and I bailed

This approach shows that making an connection is important. Don't go in over confident making jokes like a PUA but try to make that connection with a girl, I like animals but that's it, I don't have 'em yet I connected with this girl coz I felt like she was in animals a lot so I tried to get to that same level. I also reffered her being a farmer very quickly to a sexual fantasy, I knew I scored points there I just saw it in her eyes. So don't always use that same PUA talkerish behaviour but be open, ask questions and connect with the girl.

1 day passed going to call this broad tommorow to set up a date soon.

Saw a Asian HB7 cutiepie with a nice butt at the dancefloor all alone

I normally don't like Asians, I prefer latinas but she was cute and had a great body and a cute face. I thought she was colombian or something like that but anyway.

I opened with 'Hey what etnicity are you'

She replies excited 'what do you think?' Next time a girl replies with what do you think I'm going to grabb her hand and turn her around like im judging, forgot to do that would be perfect there

Me: Colombian or something like that

HB: hahahaha noooo I'm from Singapore
Me: wow would've never guessed that baby
HB: haha okay and where are you from?
Me: Guess
HB: Morocco
Me: Wow good in 1 guess your a talent
HB: *Laughing*

I grabbed her hand and Isolated her from there to a more private spot
Me: So what's your name
HB: Says her name and asks for mine

Asked her if she was enjoying the night, but I didn't feel like she was ready for a kiss close and escalation yet I kino'ed her, I number closed her and pointed to my cheek she just kissed it, gave her a big smile and bailed.

I approached a hb9 with high heels on chick

She was sitting, freaking sitting in a club.

Me: Are you serious!?
HB: *Laughing*
Me: Whats your name?
HB: Says her name and asks for mine
Me: You prolly sit all day at work, don't you with a c*cky smile
HB: How do you know haha yess I'm in law (blabla) and you?
Me: Can't tell you I don't give away my secrets that easy

I knew she needed a negg here but I couldn't come up with a good one.

Me: Why you're so bored, I think you need someone to make your night special and complete this christmas evening
HB: *Laughing* Maybeee
Me: Who's your friend she looks fed up too
HB: That's my sister we were bored so we blablablalbla
Me: Ye sure, where you're from?
HB: *city blablalba

Me: Ok I have to run, give me your number we could go for a drink sometime
HB: No sory
Me: Why
HB: I have a boyfriend..
Me: I have a girlfriend, we could be friends and still make this night special
HB: No sory
Me: Looking at her amused
HB: I'm not interested

*****ting myself

Me: 'I never hear'd that one before, have a goodnight' and bailed

After that I approached another hb7 girl that I talked with for 10mins+, we had fun teased her but I know her so no number close but we were only with the 2 of us and the HB9 saw all of it and was looking in our direction the whole time, I was indifferent to the max and just approached other girls.

Anyway time passed later that night the HB9 passed me and gave me a big smile and eye contact very long, not sure why but it happened, prolly just teasing me..

Another night I enjoyed.

I'm developing bigtime, 2 years ago I had a HUGE ego, I would rather go home alone every night then being rejected I hated that. Now I fear no girl, I approach every girl I like and have fun while doing it.

You just have to approach so much that you don't care about the outcome, you just have fun and damn I feel no fear anymore while doing it, it's a relief.

When I cut, go to the gym more, eat clean and have a stunner's wardrobe, the games are really on and I'll feel unstopable buddy.
 

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Im off track with going to the gym and getting my sh1t together. Im in my last week of my traineeship. Next week I got some presentations going on and then an introducement week with 90 other students for my minor. Two days of having fun and partying, great way to meet new women def going to enjoy.

At the moment got a couple of plates on the backburner, 1 always in for a lay other gives me mixed signals and the other is in for a date.

The plate I like the most is this 18 year old chick I met in the bus 2 weeks ago. Shes in2 animals a lot has a zoo at home its ridiculous. We have the same interest in dogs. I told her I'm at this partic bar tonight, text me if you wanna come but she didn't. After some texts a week later that I led to sexual convo her interest level got up. She keeps snapchatting every 2 hours and in the nights sexy pictures. Thursday and yesterday she asked me 'what are u doing tonight?' and 'I'm home at 8...' but I had other things to do so def going to ask her out when I'm free.

So from tommorow on:

Only clean eating(diet), gym 5 times a week and working hard on my traineeship to get my last stuff together for the presentations.

I need to watch my cash too coz I've been throwing too much around the last 2 months including some fines.

Fresh new start of getting all my stuff together, like reducing my bodyfat, getting my cash up again and ending my traineeship succesfully.
 

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Well the response you gave to the HB 9 at the club didn't go very well. I wonder what a good response is to "I have a boyfriend".
 

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skinnyguy said:
Well the response you gave to the HB 9 at the club didn't go very well. I wonder what a good response is to "I have a boyfriend".
"Want another one?" - They usually laugh at that. I usually go on and thank them for being straightforward and tell them that I'm "glad they told me so I wouldn't be THAT guy again". Then I'd go for the number again lol. PLOW SON PLOWWWWW

Usually when they say that they're not interested anyway (not enough value, not sexual enough, they actually have a BF, etc.), so I'd just move on to lower hanging fruit.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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